do you tell a provider if a hobbyist is LEO?

Reading between the lines, am I assuming when you were going to get the bachelor a "date for the evening" you as a group including the cop friend were going to pony up money?
Very dangerous situation.....Run Forrest Run comes to mind.......
A unique situation but I think you did the best by not saying anything.......

What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas. Originally Posted by pyramider

Yeah, that's Vegas. This is Oklahoma. In OK, everyone's business is everyone else's business. Been there, done that.

It's best to just stay out of it altogether. Don't mix your hobby life with your non-hobby personal life. Originally Posted by npita

This is the best rule. Get involved, and you might get "outed" by accident.

Just say NO to a LEO!! lol

I would never put either party in a compromising situation... and you NEVER know why your friend may want to see a provider. Its best to just leave it alone...