Real orgasm from a provider?

Don't worry so much if the woman orgasm or not...trust me...we enjoy the process whether we climax or not. For me personally, climax will come when I feel intimate, close and comfortable with someone...then I can just relax and let go. It's hard to do with first-time client or clients who see me once every 6 months. I think it's common for women to feel comfortable, familiar, and safe to be able to be able to achieve orgasm. And this is an honest answer from a woman...not just a provider. :-)

Samantha,

Thank you for posting that. I believe that to be a sincere and honest answer.

I think to really bring a woman to orgasm, it starts with her mind. Somewhat difficult to do on a first meeting for a 1 hour appointment. Doesn't mean it can't happen, just not as likely. That doesn't mean the sex is not enjoyable.

I will admit I have had times with meeting a provider for the first time, I did not climax. I still had a fantastic time and enjoyed every moment. That being the case, I usually would see her again, unless she was overly hung up on the not having the big finish part.
(Those are the ladies I fake it with)

Clouddancer

Hell yeah, I've had a bunch of 'em.
I get one or two from them almost every time.

Seriously, some women reach orgasm very easily and others have to work at it no matter who the guy is or how "good" he is.

A large number have had real ones. A few have had fake ones.

Even with the same woman there will be different levels. From the shaking, gone all red, grab you tight wet ones to the close the eyes, ahh, ones. The clues are there if you are able to pickup up on them.

Well we really know, the proof is in the pudding, not so much in the vocals, could be wrong

I can say since cuming into the hobby 7 months ago, I have had many more Os then I ever did in RL. Many of the men I had dated didnt care or didnt know how to help me reach an O. I have found that many men in the hobby WANT me to have a O and will take the extra steps to get me there. Yes being involved in the hobby does keep me more focused on sexual pleasure and that does keep my pussy wet most of time, so bring it on boys.......

Don't worry so much if the woman orgasm or not...trust me...we enjoy the process whether we climax or not. For me personally, climax will come when I feel intimate, close and comfortable with someone...then I can just relax and let go. It's hard to do with first-time client or clients who see me once every 6 months. I think it's common for women to feel comfortable, familiar, and safe to be able to be able to achieve orgasm. And this is an honest answer from a woman...not just a provider. :-) Originally Posted by samantha thom

Best answer yet. Thanks, Samantha!

The only O's women get in my presence is when I bring a bag of Oreos.

I bring Cheeri-O's, pyramider...it's a happier kind of orgasm.

There is a popular Provider here who told me that until recently, she hadn't had an orgasm for 7 years. Kinda funny to read her reviews from past years and read about the guys who made her cum, ha ha!

I use Cheerios as a cockring.

I've always faked my orgasms with providers ;-). Maybe someday I'll get a real orgasm from one!

I don't think I guy can ever know for certain. Even if she is willing to sleep with you for free, and have sex whenever you want, she may just like you and realize you prefer to think you are good in bed - so she may enjoy aspects of it but never truly have an orgasm.
How important is it anyway? Your wife might give you an orgasm once a week - but here you are anyway!

Real orgasms with a provider are iffy at best. Some providers are very good at making you think they did but in fact never came close. Then we have those providers that can cover your face with their juices along with the bed sheets. Then I know she did not fake it. Have ATF that when she orgasms she orgasms all over me and the sheets.

When the outside of the condom is dripping wet after sex, you have a winner.