REVIEWS??TRUTH OR SOME FICTION??

I read every review and take it with a grain of salt. I have come to realize that some guys act likes its braggin to the "boys". However, thats why you do your research and look at numerous reviews, and try to get a feel for the provider. If your still not warm and fuzzy inside, just ask, like MIRANDALEE stated. quit actin like little kids.

But to answer the original question, for ME, it will make or break a meeting with the provider if that is what i wanted.

Personally, i dont believe everything in the reviews. Thankfully, there are fellow hobbyist that call bullshit when they see it.
Like someone stated before, its best to read more than one review to get a clearer picture of the lady being seen. I wish someone would have explained to me ymmv when i started in the hobby, i would have saved lots of money.

Handy G's general rules of thumb----

+ YMMV no matter what someone else claimed they got in a session...(two weeks from now you are going to be over that and could give less than a fuck about it)

+ The review system is here for you to do your own due diligence....if you don't do the research you have to expect disappointments...and if you spend your time with unverified and non reviewed providers you are out on a limb....


+ It is easy enough to clear up any questions you may have about what is provided by the provider simply by ASKING in advance....the worst thing that can happen is she says NO to your requests....and you can move on along to someone who will meet your needs...there are girls here in San Antonio that will accommodate almost any request you can dream up....

+ Always be a grown up and be emotionally prepared for the unexpected...

Yes, reviews influence me when selecting a provider I have not seen before. But I generally believe in the average consensus, NOT what ONE guy said.

Also, I agree with Handy. You should always know that YMMV. There are NO guarantees. A Provider has the right to change her services for any reason. When meeting someone new, if she doesn't feel safe or the dude has bad hygene, she has every right to adjust to her comfort zone, AND\OR flat-out refuse service.
OR maybe she used to offer a service last month but for some reason isn't comfortable any more and takes it off the menu. That's her right.
We are just grateful that she has a menu.

Granted, if 7 reviews said BBBJ and I was restricted to CBJ, I would be disappointed. I would mention her reviews saying BBBJ and my expectation\hope. If she still declined, I would respect her decision. But next time I wanted BBBJ, I wouldn't select her (although I might select her anyway and just scratch my criteria mismatch!)

Ok I see a lot of people here are just saying "ask". I know am not the only one that does there research and most provider state in showcase/website not to ask about services and some even will say check reviews for what is offered. I'm so confused I would be very disappointed if I went in expecting something and getting a no while in the moment.

ladies can you think of a better way to handle this. maybe after being screened be open to questions about what's offered.

There's truth and fiction in reviews. I try to be as honest as possible. If I get extra time or services that's not the boards business so that will be left out. I check reviews before I see anyone. If I see a discrepancy I ask said provider. If I get no response, I move on.

Thanks again for all of your responses! I just wanted both sides opinion, i never have a problem discussing with someone what i do or dont do before they come see me, main reason being i wanna make sure we have an understanding what i will or wont do, and make sure they get what they want as well and almost 99% of the time i will let them know before they come but i am only human and sometimes forget. But i thank everyone for there imput.
P.S I DONT DO CIM LOL
Be safe everyone!!!

Liz

ladies can you think of a better way to handle this. maybe after being screened be open to questions about what's offered. Originally Posted by black5uperman

Once I have a gent screened, and I know hes legit, im open to answerimg questions.
I would like for him discreet, and not all explicit and graph.

Ladies, is that wrong? Should I *not* do that?