You know, it's sad that a lady who cares enough about her reputation to try salvage it is slammed for doing so. A little understanding and taking the time to hear what a person is saying rather than going into a frenzy at the first sign of blood would be the decent thing to do...Melody, I think it speaks volumes that you care what people think of you and it's important enough that you would take a stand for yourself. Keep your head up, don't let this get you down and feel free to call me anytime...
I will never settle for less than I deserve either no matter what anyone else has to say about it. It's called Self-Respect.