bp is not my cup of tea

Cant wait for this rain to leave and get the fucking started lol love you ECCIE men lol xoxoxLMH Originally Posted by lilmisshottie

Damn, girl, you are making it hard on some of us......

We love you too.

BP is a tool. Not all tools are the right tool for the job. What works well for person may not work well for someone else. Do what works for you....

Thanks for your post.

Just sayin

So true, most men do call and want to be seen within 15-20 min from thier call ..... Originally Posted by WFBBW4UDADDY

That is why their are different providers that have different like styles me..... Call me with short notice long notice no children here. The only problem with me I may be booked if you wait till the last minute but you never know who just NCNS or had to cancel ANYTHING so I could be all dolled up bed ready lotion warm and no one to see. So hell yeah if your a member you can try your luck with a 10 minute notice hey I am in your area are you free? HELL YEAH COME ON OVER? LOL You never know....

Now my girlfriend she has 2 kids she wants a day before notice and 3 reminders lol let me know the day before you want it and what time and a confirmation before she drops the kids off at the sitter. etc etc.. LIFE happens and it is more hectic with children. But that's why different providers have different times and dates. Like most providers can not do 5 a.m. appointments me I LOVE THEM. Now the late night ones I will do but am normally getting my beauty sleep at 2 a.m. cause remember I am up at 5. But there are several providers that love working from 11 to 3 a.m.

But as far as BP goes I could not do half as many appointments with out it. You just have to be careful.

I started out on BP and the clients on there are not gents at all. I became a VP here and the clients I have seen have been such Gentlemen. I am also on P411 and screening is easy and the men on there are great. This time of the year is slow so traveling is needed but I was told that pre-booking is not used any more. I wish there was a happy medium.

i would love to be on p411 just dont know how

im sure if you contact one of the mods. they can assist you.
im not sure hor to register from the providers side of things, but it was quite easy on my end. and im sure you can get a few vouches. i know i can and will vouch for you.
we've met. i believe i even reviewed you too

All my kid are well grown so most of the time just like majichands my availability is mainly open, the only thing is some ladies don't have all that availability unless arrangements can be made. I see clients 24/7 I nap in between and run my errands when I feel its a slight down time.
BP is partly also my form of getting more clients, and I do agree that there are shadey characters on there, but for the most part my regulars that come weekly are great gentleman from that site and are very generous (or they wouldn't be a regular).
I think no matter where you advertise you will come across a shadey character now and then, I seen posts on this site about a few shadey eccie members over the time I have visited this site, so that just goes to show even if they are a member of a prominent site you still got to be careful and screen(maybe not as much but it don't hurt).

I've thought of doing p411. I just don't like the idea of another database with my information
I'm already paranoid.

I may have to take you up on that Hottie. Thanks.

Wargy,

I can assure you that Gina from p411 is very safe with personal info.
P411 isnt even based in the USA.

Its a "get what you give" environment...

BP = free, easy, risky, asshats-a-plenty
ECCIE = not so easy or free (verified status, etc..), but not so risky, either, fewer asshats
411 = not free, not too easy to get on, but safest, least risk, very few asshats

Most providers start on BP and climb the ladder... some (most good ones in my opinion) establish a presence on both ECCIE and P411. They are successful in finding a happy medium with risk\reward using both sites.

Personally, I use P411 initially, and then go to ECCIE when looking for a provider.

Scheduling is difficult for both providers and clients in many situations. Providers defiantly have lives\family that have to get their due respect. Some clients can schedule easily, but others (with SOs, etc...) may have limited times and limited advance notice when they can 'hobby'. I remember a hilarious review a few months ago when a guy "hobbied" while he was shopping with is wife.

All we can do is just be accommodating when possible, tolerant when needed, and to do our best. On a personal note, I really appreciate it when a provider who NCNS's me tells me the truth. I would much rather hear "I'm sorry - I overslept after a late night" than "I'm sorry my phone died\family emergency, etc...".

Just my $.02

same here tigger i use both sites myself.411 is safe but i can't get the intell i really need like sarge and ranch provide us on here..eccie and 411 is the best of both worlds imo..

lilmisshottie was wonderful at pre-booking with me. Contacted via PM at lunch, met her later that evening. I am past due on my review, just got back to Killeen, apologies to lmh for the delay.

More on topic - as a light hobbiest, it is more of an impulse, probably due to high risk/low reward aspect of avenues like BP. ECCIE certainly changes that equation, as a hobbiest it gives me ability to trust quite a bit more in the provider, changing the equation more towards budget, scheduling, and availability.

Well not all backpage providers are bad girls in a scene if you really research some ladys are on bp and eccie and p411. There always a sour apple in a bunch what can you do. I myself will be a lady and keep making you men happy!!!