Okay, I'll bite. Are you serious Amy? I'm pretty sure the main reason you're catching flack is because you feel the need to broadcast your every decision. If you don't want to see black guys, fine. Don't see them. If you DO want the big black snake then take it (I know most women secretly love the dark meat anyways). It's as simple as making up your mind! My advice to you would be to get some friends you can talk about these sorts of things in private with. Please stop logging on to cry about some "haters" or complain/boast about your business. I'm almost certain no one cares. When I see these threads I feel like you're making a spectacle of yourself so every one can have something to talk about.
It's better to remain quite and be thought a fool than to speak and remove all doubt