Pillow Talk

is it wrong that im fantasizing about motorboating that ass cleavage in ur avatar? Originally Posted by LusciousLacy

and here I was thinking your fantasy was about motorboating manboobs.

and here I was thinking your fantasy was about motorboating manboobs. Originally Posted by Lonesome

No... thats an addiction. LOL!!

LoL, WildWooly's avatar is priceless.

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SUPER EXCITED! Going to get to have pillow talk in Shreveport!! Im hoping its more of the bury my face deep in a pillow to keep neighbors from hearing my screams of pleasure, kind of talk...but Beezdats avatar makes me worry about being face down ass up... lol !!!

So.. say you were going to do just GFE but had a secret desire to try greek for the first time... or something else.

Do you feel comfortable in doing that on a first session appt? Do you discuss it beforehand or do you hint around afterwards during pillow talk? Do you need the lady to start that discussion or do you open that up if youre feeling comfortable with the lady? Originally Posted by LusciousLacy

There are two issues here: What the man is comfortable saying, and what the lady is comfortable doing. The reason a client would not mention a particular kink or fantasy is simply fear of being rejected.

Personally I have a particular fantasy I enjoy (none of your business!) but I would never bring it up on a first date because it is the sort of thing that is outside of the comfort zone of some women. (Hint: It is a major reason I have a thing for latinas). So unless it is something I have seen a provider advertise, I am not likely to mention it until I have been with her a couple of times and feel comfortable with her.

"Communication is Key" as the old saying goes...

What if the provider is known for kink and has reviews that clearly states she places no judgment? Like I have 2 brand new reviews that are 100% fetish/kink. Would that make it easier for a guy to open up and request? KNowing that provider is into fantasy/kink/fetish and has experience?

What if the provider is known for kink and has reviews that clearly states she places no judgment? Like I have 2 brand new reviews that are 100% fetish/kink. Would that make it easier for a guy to open up and request? KNowing that provider is into fantasy/kink/fetish and has experience? Originally Posted by LusciousLacy

I think it means I need to call you, the next time you are around!

I think advertising as being "fetish friendly" is helpful, although there are kinks and then there are kinks. Usually people think of fetish as BDSM, leather, domina activities, maybe things like golden showers and more extreme kink. But then there things like CIM or greek that probably falls under the category of "normal" activities (but who is to say what is normal, right?) but which many providers do not like to do. It is actually the second category that I am talking about.

Not necessarily my thing, but I imagine it is easy to ask a provider who advertises as "fetish friendly" to go all David Vitter on you and tie you up. It is actually harder to ask a GFE provider if she does greek or CIM, at least on the first encounter.

I think it means I need to call you, the next time you are around!

I think advertising as being "fetish friendly" is helpful, although there are kinks and then there are kinks. Usually people think of fetish as BDSM, leather, domina activities, maybe things like golden showers and more extreme kink. But then there things like CIM or greek that probably falls under the category of "normal" activities (but who is to say what is normal, right?) but which many providers do not like to do. It is actually the second category that I am talking about.

Not necessarily my thing, but I imagine it is easy to ask a provider who advertises as "fetish friendly" to go all David Vitter on you and tie you up. It is actually harder to ask a GFE provider if she does greek or CIM, at least on the first encounter. Originally Posted by LeopoldLast

I agree... each "title" can mean very different things. Although I am one that likes to witness a pro do something and then have it done to me so i can see what the guy would feel.. before i do anything. For instance- the other day a gentleman was "i guess they call it porcupined"... wooden clamp clothes pins from head of the penis down shaft and down balls. But I got to watch a lady do this the correct way and how to make it painless... as well as had her do it to me (only from clit, down each side of the lips.)... I admit... was no pain but was VERY stimulating and erotic! I never would had done that at a mans request unless i experienced it first and was shown proper technique. Im pretty sure... that isnt GFE LOL But again.... it was brought up in pillow talk.. NEver had i heard of such a thing during casual conversation. Also have had request to rope bondage men... so this lady and a pro let me not only be taught the proper and safe techniques.. but i got to experience it.. I def dont like being tied.. but it was a positive experience and also.. quite erotic.

I agree... each "title" can mean very different things. Although I am one that likes to witness a pro do something and then have it done to me so i can see what the guy would feel.. before i do anything. For instance- the other day a gentleman was "i guess they call it porcupined"... wooden clamp clothes pins from head of the penis down shaft and down balls. But I got to watch a lady do this the correct way and how to make it painless... as well as had her do it to me (only from clit, down each side of the lips.)... I admit... was no pain but was VERY stimulating and erotic! I never would had done that at a mans request unless i experienced it first and was shown proper technique. Im pretty sure... that isnt GFE LOL But again.... it was brought up in pillow talk.. NEver had i heard of such a thing during casual conversation. Also have had request to rope bondage men... so this lady and a pro let me not only be taught the proper and safe techniques.. but i got to experience it.. I def dont like being tied.. but it was a positive experience and also.. quite erotic. Originally Posted by LusciousLacy

I like doing the fetish myself but I have been the reciever at the events I attend in Florida. I also like Udultcon and the Avn Awards, Exxotica and a few others and I have footage of the feature that tours for the shows doing a freaky toy session on me. It was very different since it was the type of thing that was plugged in and had voltage and she used my ass..........It was on fire and another color for maybe 2 days! Lmao! Well,I Love Shreveport and they treated me very well when I visited. Your post reminded me of the "electric ass show" I was the victem of