any married providers

Happily married to a gender queer man (that means has the same equipment I do, but, much, much, masculine and handsome) for the last six years And have a female partner of two years. All cohoused in happy chaos. Originally Posted by Katharine Butler

wow, wonderful!!! PM me, I think we might like each other! I am poly and like gender and queer, or queer gender. Fan of queer theories here also. Proud member of the kinkster community in brooklyn ). Nice to find you here!

I am married to a fully femaled body but male (for the most part) brained/souled person. I am also partner to a female body and brained woman.
We all share a house.
Originally Posted by Katharine Butler

Got ya. I sometimes used to think of myself as a more male brained/souled person as well. Nowadays I try to not do the gender dichotomy at all anymore and let it slide.

I could never relate to "girlie" stuff. Wonderful!

Very close, SL. gender and sex are tricky things, no?

I am married to a fully femaled body but male (for the most part) brained/souled person. I am also partner to a female body and brained woman.
We all share a house.

BB, drop me a note any time.

Kat Originally Posted by Katharine Butler

OK I see so this is a person born a man trapped in a femal body if I understand you correctly! Who am I to judge? I think thats great!

One question... do you guys fight over the remote control?

I used to have a semi regular provider, ATF, who I noticed had a ring on when we were getting dressed afterwards. I never asked about it though.. I did like seeing the ring and thinking ahhhh yaaah. LOL.

I personally find it a turn on to be with married providers and even more of a turn on if their SO knows a little about what she is doing but not the full extent or better yet is totally clueless. It would be hotttt if she did wear her ring in the session.

Kathy - I think that's great and your life must be interesting, and home must be a nice change of pace from your clients.

That reminds me, gender can be confusing. We had very young people, like 18 ish,(children of old friends) stay at our our house as they were saving money on a hotel on their road trip. It was two young couples, and I was not going to have them do any hanky panky in house, so I gave the extra bedroom to the girls and made the guys sleep in the family room. I got sad looks.
Later I had a young lesbian couple stay with us, and a male tag along friend, and gender confusion hit, and I gave up, I let the lesbians share the bedroom, and made the guy sleep by himself. I think everyone getting something, as I am sure the male friend masturbated, LOL. Originally Posted by lostforkate

You are just pissed because everyone was getting laid, but you.

LMAO, those were my monogamous years, so maybe ur right, can't remember if I did the SO, thinking about the lesbians ofcourse.

You are just pissed because everyone was getting laid, but you. Originally Posted by pyramider

met one like that last night.....lil lady was married to a outside man but inside woman....so he preferred the same dick she got. and she was okay with it as she drank 6 patron shots and kept mentioning the fuck word. seems to me she wanted dick....and to not watch him get dicked...

Well when I was engaged I always wore my ring, no one ever seemed to mind. I don't think it should make a difference either way personally.