Is a Sugar Baby the Answer?

Absolutely, without too much detail can you share what the sb/sd deal was?

When you go overseas they see you as a "fat, chubby American?"

Hey try being a four hundred pound soul brother and see how you like that!




(I only get tail by telling girls I'm a record producer)

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(I only get tail by telling girls I'm a record producer) Originally Posted by da_goo_man

If you don't laugh at this you're dead. That's funny!

ok so it started out w an hr gfe and then it was weekly then bi weekly then the question DAILY AND exclusive! hmm i thought well it aint a marriage so ok he was great in bed he paid all my bills and took me out several times a week it was tough bc i knew i was alone everynight and he was w his so even sexually while i remained exclusive to him for over a year then his so got sick and I had to start all over again in the provider world which being a single mom was tough I struggled but I made it so all in all
lets see
rent plus bills 950mo
car 350
food 130
gas card abt 40 a wk = 160
shopping 400

and * GWT aka Papi * always had me anytime anyday anywhere
the sad part is he was an awesome guy! and hes still miserable w her
had it been set weekdays or weekly would have been abt 1200month
roughly $2000 a month but my cars paid for so it would be less even

ok so it started out w an hr gfe and then it was weekly then bi weekly then the question DAILY AND exclusive! hmm i thought well it aint a marriage so ok he was great in bed he paid all my bills and took me out several times a week it was tough bc i knew i was alone everynight and he was w his so even sexually while i remained exclusive to him for over a year then his so got sick and I had to start all over again in the provider world which being a single mom was tough I struggled but I made it so all in all
lets see
rent plus bills 950mo
car 350
food 130
gas card abt 40 a wk = 160
shopping 400

and * GWT aka Papi * always had me anytime anyday anywhere
the sad part is he was an awesome guy! and hes still miserable w her
had it been set weekdays or weekly would have been abt 1200month
roughly $2000 a month but my cars paid for so it would be less even Originally Posted by Absolutely

Thank you absolutely for honestly stating what a true SB relationship is and can be!

Thanks again...

It's all about the type of woman you enter into this type of agreement with. The way I see it, you got three kinds of SugarBabies.

You got the student, 18-22. She probably has no kids or bills, except for school. She'll be satisfied with new clothes, and a nice car.

The single mom, age 25-35. Some women are just co-dependent, and don't expect anything more from a guy than just the bills being paid.

The REAL SugarBaby age 18-40. There are some ladies who wouldn't consider an exclusive arrangement unless it was a truly unique situation, where a man was really looking to change and upgrade her lifestyle. What I would consider a worth while exclusive arrangement for a lady of any age would be a mentorship/financial backing so that whenever it's over, she can stand on her own two feet.

For me, time away from my home, child, business, and work counts as a loss. It would take more than paying the bills to get that type of exclusivity from me. Because when it ends, you're left with nothing.

I've never been fond of exclusive arrangements because of the control factor. Coming from a provider's perspective, a lady should always consider loss of income before becoming exclusive with someone. Same for the gents. It has been argued that sleeping with one guy is better, and paying the bills is all some ladies are trying to do. The point in being exclusive is not having a need to be with anyone else. When the arrangement ends, a lady should not be worried about what she's going to do to make ends meet.

Hell, all those dollars being shelled out is more expensive than being married and occasionally testing the waters in the hobby!!!! Not for me however, I'm looking for more of the independent lady who I can play with
A couple times a month at a reasonable cost which would be a monthly fixed income for them. Have or can I find that? Haven't yet!!!!

Any of us would be down for that, Mr. Passion. That's called an ATF, and that takes patience. Some ladies require a certain amount of patronage before she offers you something along these lines.

Well to me it's all about pleased and be pleased!!! You like a girlfriend without the attachment and the worry of your girlfriend finding out your married a no strings attached with mutual benefits and I do mean mutual because I love driving a lady crazyyyyyy!!!!!!!!!

tiffani im not co dependent!
oh i should add im a single mom with a set amt a month coming in for just my 13yo kid! so thats taken care of! I never lost time w my kid married men see u during daytime school hrs!
id be happy to set a lower date rate for monthly weekly ect arrangements Sure! im very low volume so for me it wouldnt be a problem at all!
ps the hobby is my only adult nekkid time

Tiffani, very eloquent & well thought out financial balance sheet. But what you suggest is a basic "no cut" contract with built in severence package. All due respect, & I mean that, we're just negotiating pussy. You ain't finding the God particle....
Some providers and johns actually find that they really like spending time together and {{gasp}} connect in bed! I'm being highly smart assed I know, am just trying to say that a SB relationship is. Ot ALWAYS completely predicated on $$$$.

oh and as for the 18-22yo student most SUGAR DADDYS are married and a school girl prob woulD not fit the bill in maturity or time wise IMHO* at 18-21 they are still confused ijs

Miss Absolutely,

I was not calling you co-dependent. You did what was best for you. If you don't feel used, or enjoyed your situation, your situation was well worth it. In no way was I referring to you.

I know ladies that have been in every area of a SB relationship and are NOT having a good time at all. He pays the bills, but if the car breaks down, or she has an added expense, he's either bitching or not there for her. Yet whenever he called she ran. That's co-dependent.

I know several young ladies who are in school, and have attracted the attentions of sugardaddies. He put her in an apartment, takes her all over the world to different events, and has a car her mother would never afford to get her. All she has to do is maintain her A average. And of course the good stuff.

And some men get off on tricking some young girl into bed with the hopes of 'taking care of her'. They buy her an expensive pair of shoes and a bag, or lease her a car that she has NO idea that won't be hers in a year, and she's happy. He gets what he wants and so does she. I also know ladies who have businesses and homes thanks to sugardaddies.

We shouldn't assume what guys want in a Sugarbaby, as long as you're it for somebody. I'm not here to judge you, I hope you know that. I will reiterate that if you were happy with your arrangement, that's all that matters.

Tiffani, very eloquent & well thought out financial balance sheet. But what you suggest is a basic "no cut" contract with built in severence package. All due respect, & I mean that, we're just negotiating pussy. You ain't finding the God particle....
Some providers and johns actually find that they really like spending time together and {{gasp}} connect in bed! I'm being highly smart assed I know, am just trying to say that a SB relationship is. Ot ALWAYS completely predicated on $$$$. Originally Posted by Toyz

LMAO @ God particle.
Negotiating pussy never goes over well. I know it's based on money, but a connection in bed is necessary above all things, or everything else is moot.

I never said anything about a severance package, but what I mean is giving her something- knowledge, connections, culture, something that when the arrangement is over, she has grown as a person having known you.

Is it really all about getting it as cheaply as possible? What's so wrong with enriching a person's life? Especially if it's reciprocated, of course...

Is it really all about getting it as cheaply as possible? What's so wrong with enriching a person's life? Especially if it's reciprocated, of course... Originally Posted by Tiffani Jameson

It's really just about the pussy for most guys...

Fool yourself if you want to but in what way is some 18-40yo prostitute going to enrich my life?