JD - If you had started out your response with "I had been drinking heavily" then everything else you typed would have made sense. I've done stupid crap like this while I've been drunk, which I'm sure many people reading this can relate too. But to have exhibited this type of behavior sober and then defend it is kinda disturbing.
Some providers will sometimes give me a broad since of whats included and some just say I dont talk about that stuff over the phone...
Originally Posted by johndingus
No provider I know would talk details over the phone of someone they've never seen and haven't had a chance to check references.
BUT THIS ONE!!! She stated that I was LE and hung up the phone on me. I sent her couple of txt's stating I was not LE and called her maybe 4 times at most on my cellphone. But she was not taking my call. My little head between my legs was completely in charge and my little head wanted to see her thus wanted to try to do some damage control. So I used my friends cell phone to call her.
Originally Posted by johndingus
This goes back to my drunk comments. I've done stupid crap like text and call people excessively but only after I reached the bottom of a Captain Morgan bottle and only if there was a past relationship there (the term is drunk dialing/drunk texting). This behavior is what caused her to red flag the situation.
If she would of just said something along the lines of: "look, I dont feel comfortable seeing you, please dont call me anymore" I would of totally respected her request. Maybe would of felt bummed, but of respected her request none the less.
Originally Posted by johndingus
The fact that you didn't come to this conclusion after being hung up on, having your texts ignored, and having your excessive calls ignored is just..odd.
I totally understand that providers have a right to refuse service for any reason. But when you take it a step further and threaten said client when they're trying reason things out. Client has the right to report you and hold you accountable.
Originally Posted by johndingus
I think your bad judgement and actions freaked her out and like anyone who gets majorly freaked... she warned others.. In this hobby people can find themselves in precarious situations so it's common to notify others if someone gives you a bad vibe.