Advice On How To Broach Lesbian/Bisexual Activities With Girlfriend

cuddlyteddybear's Avatar
So, your MARRIED girlfriend is only worried about being caught with an escort!? Originally Posted by NEthing4fun

LOL. Didn't say "ONLY." Yes, she was worried about that, but also that if we got busted, she'd have some "splainin" to do with her SO.
pmdelites's Avatar
Yes to the ideas above, but why not test the waters at a gentleman's club, and you might--or she might--find someone you or both of you can approach. Or, she may find that she isn't so interested after all. Isn't it Dirty Dog who has the famous quote about why do you rob banks? That's where the money is. Originally Posted by bartipero
always good to consider things out of the box.

but while this might an out of the box possibility,
given what we guys know about women who work in gentlemen's clubs,
would you really want a girlfriend to have her first female-female encounter with a woman who works in a gentlemen's clubs??
sure, there's a small probability that it'll be fun.
but from what i've read in various cities, the probability is low.

cuddlyteddybear, my thoughts are along stacy's and KCQuestor's thoughts.
think long about this. [i was going to say "long and hard", but since your girlfriend is the subject of this encounter, it might not apply :^]
make sure she wants to do it.
make sure she gets to make the final selection. [tho you and your girlfriend could hold "preliminary" auditionings :^]
make sure the focus is on her.
and have fun!!! so that it's a memorable and pleasurable delite for her and you.

if it all goes well, i'm sure she'll repay you in some ways, shapes, or formss!!