Apology's

You're a good man for trying to get things straight. We were all NEW at one time...not knowing the protocol of the hobby...you got hit square in the face with a dose of reality! (lol) Heck, I've been there!

From here on out...it's very simple...be respectful. Take time to read a potential provider's showcase/ads...so, you know what she expects...and, if she's out of your donation budget...find someone who is. There are more than enough providers here that are willing to accomodate you. Good-luck to you! Originally Posted by Likinikki

Well said my friend...

...ugh i hate commiting why cant i just call when im ready? Haha) Originally Posted by Jten13

I have never had an issue with booking an appointment days or even weeks in advance. You simply set your schedule and then stick to it. Yes, sometimes the unpredictability of life happens and such advance meetings do not happen. No big deal. There will always be another opportunity.

I cannot understand how those of you who want to, as you say, just call when you are ready really expect the lady on the other end of that call to transform her universe instantly to revolve around you at that very moment. That, to me, is an unreasonable expectation.

Learning but I like spontaneous but it just doesn't work in this hobby. I don't expect girls to turn off everything when I call I know they have busy life's as well. I just hope stars align and I get lucky but I think I'm gonna start prebooking only so I don't get stuck with someone lower on my list

When u prebook make sure u keep the appointment if u cant make it for whatever reason just let the provider know ahead of time that u cant make it. Dont let her know after the time of meeting not good for u lol..

Jten13 wrote in part:
".....but I think I'm gonna start prebooking only so I don't get stuck with someone lower on my list....."

always re-read something before you post it kind Sir because you are prejudiced to it or you wouldn't have typed it in the first place..

to me --- the above comment could possibly always make the woman you are seeing think she is on that "lower" list of yours...n'est-ce pas?

Okay. We will give yu another shot, I wasn't at the social but boy did I hear about it.

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to me --- the above comment could possibly always make the woman you are seeing think she is on that "lower" list of yours...n'est-ce pas?


WTF? Did he just say that?!!

Thanks jucci! And sorry Dennis your right I should have worded that better. My list is long but none of the ladies who have posted would be on the bottom part of it. Hell a cpl are at the very top! And Miranda a ncns is unwarranted and You shouldn't waste time providing to people who want to waste yours! It's valuable