What made you become a Hobbyist?

Mine is not as poetic or interesting as yalls, but, I just love women... The way they talk, the way they look, the way they smell, and Feel. It's much easier for me, as a workaholic, to window shop rather than court. That and my wife decided she doesn't have to blow me errrr now and then at least.

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THIS!!

Thanks for sharing your stories.

Plain and simple truth is I'm older,single, hate bullshit, have more money now and like good sex.

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My journey into this hobby started at 19:

In college, found the girl of my dreams. Smoking hot, completely understanding, knew when to give me my space. Love at first sight, had me wrapped around her fingers.

She told me she worked at a hotel to pay for college. I was driving her to work on some days and never had a clue. So for the next 6 months i had the best sex life a 19 yr old could dream to have.

Then 6 months later my best friend lets me know he slept with her at that hotel on one of the days i dropped her off and she was an escort, during a fight.

Its after this that i found out that, as a man, I cannot go backwards sexually. She became the standard by which i judged every other woman.

It is damn near impossible to find a woman that can make you feel better than an escort can.

So why I became a hobbyist? Because only an escort can match the standard I have become accustomed to in the bedroom.

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It is damn near impossible to find a woman that can make you feel better than an escort can. Originally Posted by casuallyyours

Peek under the skirt. Most escorts are women too.

This is a great start. I enjoy hearing the stories the guys tell me

Peek under the skirt. Most escorts are women too. Originally Posted by JDNorthface

LOL I meant finding a woman thats not an escort who can match up to an escort. You knew that >.<

Bad marriage with a verbally abusive woman caused a seven year dry stretch and a complete misconception on my part as to what I was gifted with and if I was any good with it.
First woman I dated didn't help as she was getting over an horrible experience and I was the "transition guy", she came out of it healthier I was more damaged.
First escort I saw regularly was a therapeutic breakthrough until she retired, second one I saw regularly taught me how the ex was wrong and I was happy for her when she received a blessing that caused her to retire. Now I'm having fun getting to know a third.

After being betrayed so many times in conventional dating relationships, I decided to completely opt out of the dating and marriage world. I'm done with them for good. After having sex for the first time with a beautiful Provider, I realized how much I had been missing out on. I can say that every provider I have been with has treated me with more dignity and respect, than all of my ex-girlfriends combined.