Outcall Fees

Let me rephrase that negotiation...

Asshat cheapskating bastards who try to negotiate for bullshit 15 minute bng when the ladies clearly don't offer it....vs...a man who would like to spend say...two hours outcall but the price change drastically affects his ability to see the lady...in those cases why is it bad to ask? Originally Posted by tntangie

15 minutes? I am sure they do not last that long.

Ugh...those fuckers are the ones who ultimately try to get a good 30-45 min dick suckin and then some.

Again, the asshats ruin it for the good ones.

I can see why a provider would charge that much extra for an outcall because technically she could book another appointment during the time spent driving to and from the outcall. I only charge extra for gas but I am low volume so I'm not concerned about the fact I could've booked another client.
Like tntangie stated, I am not opposed to a client who wants to book an hour or two session asking me if I would negotiate. I am flexible and nothing is ever set in stone...(well, I take that back...some things, my rates not one of them, are set in stone.) Although, like tntangie, I find it offensive if they try to haggle me on a bng (which I don't advertise and if I agree to it, it's a favor and at a bargain rate to start with) or when I don't advertise a 30 min rate they think they can pay half of my hourly rate and get it anyways.

I cannot speak for others but going to a friend's residence often makes me nervous. I know what I have at MY incall. I cannot imagine what a stranger might have in his home.

It leaves me feeling very vulnerable unless we already know each other.

I often do outcalls to hotels. I charge an outcall fee not because I'm missing appointments otherwise, but because there is generally a bunch of travel time, gas and then ... for me, valet at the hotel and tipping.

Back before this whole arena got a little tight, financially, for most ... men would just say to put the valet on their room number and then, the lady could just tip the valet nicely.

Now ... I just don't see this happening hardly at all which is why I charge an outcall fee. It's for the gas, travel time, valet fees and also, packing up what I need for the appointment as well.

It's a heck of a lot easier to greet a man at the door in lingerie and in your own environment.

Interesting question, though! Sometimes, it really is nice to go to another place. It's just "according", though. I don't visit apartments, period.

I have offered incall rate if I happen to be out at dinner & have my "hooker bag" w/ me.

But then it's just lovely when you get bullshitted by that person you offer a deal to (even a better one another night after they cancel that) and it goes on and on...

Chewtoy...you did help me realize I did have my rates set up a bit strange and fixed my 2 hr rate accordingly.

Thanks for the thread. It did give me some insight.

Thank you, Angie-though I can't say I'm surprised. Everything I've seen from you shows a consistently strong level of humor, class, and forethought. Sadly, not everyone follows your lead.

Admittedly, one of my undergrad degrees was math, so I'm probably a bit more sensitive than most about numbers-I just automatically analyze things. Lol, i get so annoyed when I see bad pricing.

It just seems like a lot of the ladies are pricing themselves out of longer outcalls.

I do not mind going on outcalls, and private residences are my prefrence, i always feel a little awkward in hotel lobby's, lol. But it also depends how far the outcall is, i do not travel more than 30-40 minutes for an outcall.