Giving References....Gents Please Read

Lexxxy,

Clear policy and a good one!.

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DD

First let me state that I think your policy is fair and well-explained. A provider should choose a reference policy that works best for them and is fair to their clients and well as the other ladies. Kudos to you for providing rapid responses. I hear that is not always the case with some.

Here are some of my thoughts and concerns though:

I personally don't like a lot of information shared about myself behind the scenes. It's clear that you're trying to be helpful when providing a gentleman's likes and dislikes but I wouldn't want that in my case. I like things to occur organically, explore a bit with a new woman, not having some forced service because someone heard I like a particular date. What I enjoy with one woman may not be the case for another. Sometimes I don't want my old shoes.

Here's a bit of a quandary. My experience with touring providers is that sometimes it's easy for time to pass before having a chance to meet again. Schedules don't mesh once during a tour and it can easily be a year since you last saw that provider. What if it's been 12 months and I wanted to see you? Would I require new references? If the answer is no, then I'm okay to see you but not the other ladies. It's understandable that the extra work and time involved in providing the reference should have some reasonable time-frame. The money spent on that last date should only get a guy so far. Yet my point is that if I'm still good to be seen by that provider, she should at least consider providing the reference when I have been a solid long-term client.

Nice thread.

First let me state that I think your policy is fair and well-explained. A provider should choose a reference policy that works best for them and is fair to their clients and well as the other ladies. Kudos to you for providing rapid responses. I hear that is not always the case with some.

Here are some of my thoughts and concerns though:

I personally don't like a lot of information shared about myself behind the scenes. It's clear that you're trying to be helpful when providing a gentleman's likes and dislikes but I wouldn't want that in my case. I like things to occur organically, explore a bit with a new woman, not having some forced service because someone heard I like a particular date. What I enjoy with one woman may not be the case for another. Sometimes I don't want my old shoes.

Here's a bit of a quandary. My experience with touring providers is that sometimes it's easy for time to pass before having a chance to meet again. Schedules don't mesh once during a tour and it can easily be a year since you last saw that provider. What if it's been 12 months and I wanted to see you? Would I require new references? If the answer is no, then I'm okay to see you but not the other ladies. It's understandable that the extra work and time involved in providing the reference should have some reasonable time-frame. The money spent on that last date should only get a guy so far. Yet my point is that if I'm still good to be seen by that provider, she should at least consider providing the reference when I have been a solid long-term client.

Nice thread. Originally Posted by mwebber

That is very understandable and I dont go into great personal detail unless it is a super need to know like a Diabetic that gets very sick towards the end of a date and doesn't tell you he is a Diabetic until after the 3rd date or a Diabetic that accidentally forgot his insulin pump and cell in my room once so I had to chase him down in the lot in fishnets, dirty gym clothes, and slippers.I am all for privacy and what not but those are super important things that a Lady should know before you spend time with her for both your safety because I doubt someone wants to pass out in a hotel and have a clueless Lady call 911 because of a sugar drop or missing a pill.
When it comes to someone I have seen more than once or that has written me a review it is a different story, a year is acceptable because I will have a better memory of them and I will have a review to look back on. Sometimes I give reviewers specials when they prebook because I have a busy life so prebookers that review make screening so much easier and faster. That is a whole other thing, I like to do specials to encourage things that make my life easier and to ensure I have a good trip. Running a special ensures multihour prebooks so that I can remain low volume.