It's the little things...

Realizing like I have that I failed to answer my own inquiry, let me tell you what I think that most special 'little thing' is for me. I think it's when I get a quick text or email after a session from the lady.

I'm not one to require much back and forth with al lady before the session. I don't enjoy long phone conversations, lengthy text exchanges, or email banter. Not that I dislike it or avoid it, I just don't normally require it. So I have a lady I've seen for years. She usually--not always, though--will send a message somehow after the session saying, "Good to see you again" or "Thank you." It's funny because because she knows just how to make it caring and concerned and genuine without being too personal and too 'lovey.' That would be a common error from someone you've seen regularly and with whom you've grown comfortable. But she just knows how to be grateful and kind without being mushy and pushy. Gratitude is an art form.

I wish my Providers would say those nice things to me.

I sure hope this doesn't turn into another penis thread! Originally Posted by Still Looking

Well, it is the little things ...

No no babe I wasnt trying to suggest your at fault, just possibly that your not seeing the kind of ladies who would be sweet on ya like this. From my own personal experience I tend to show this appreciation to the clients who are sweeties to me as well. Its a shame that human kindness is a rare commodity these days, and gratefulness in any profession is scarce. Some of us are just sincere and show it, where as many are probably too scared to show any emotion in fear that you might take it the wrong way. Who knows. But from all of your posts I can tell your a sweety. Id bring ya some homemade candy,

xoxo

Now, now Kymber: Unlike what some may think, I am not an ogre.Let's just say that I have scaled back my expectations in this demimonde world to be less than what you, and the others, have described. In the RW, I have had people do and say the little things that made quite the impression on me. Likewise, I have paid attention to the details which gives them a bounce in their step. I just have not had that in this world and I have been around longer than most here, so I have just come to expect the behavior I described in my first post in this thread.

For me, I have not had a provider do a little thing since even the well-reviewed providers along with the UTR ones I have seen, just don't do that. Now telling me something is one thing, which I never take seriously since that is what a girl does to get someone to come back to her. Yet, doing something is a horse of a different color. That is why I don't repeatedly see a single provider anymore since it has been my experience the little things don't seem to matter. For me, actions speak louder than words and always will. Originally Posted by PhantomofTheOpera