That "woman" knows what hell she's doing. I say you cry "sexual harrassment" first and sue for all you can. When you get that "pain and suffering" money, see if she still wants you.
... then smack her in the face with your dick as her punishment.
Some ladies enjoy the tease. Once you touch, the game's over and she no longer will play. Other ladies really are receptive to more. Some can handle it, others cannot. Be careful.