She probably has put out the wipes as a courtesy to her clients, maybe one of her other clients made the suggestion. I wouldn't think she has upgraded her menu. But next time you're there at beginning of session let her know you won't be coming back nearly as often as you have found an RMT with similar service & price but much closer to your home. If she values your business and is willing to play, she will give you L1 to keep you coming back.
Originally Posted by Top Dog
Is the massage that good ?
Originally Posted by fishingtwo
whoa!!! first of all, if you're NOT willing to bluff the "wont be coming back", then dont bluff. what if she is really a great massage therapist? are you willing to leave her cos she wont do extras?? great MTs are difficult to find.
second, "If she values your business and is willing to play, she will give you L1 to keep you coming back."
where did that faulty logic come from??? just cos she might value your business does not mean she'll do extras.
None of us have a clue. We can not read her mind for you.
Originally Posted by Torito
Do not. Repeat do not do anything. There are so many options other than her. Maybe she would(small upside) or maybe she wouldn't(big downside).
Originally Posted by outoftheblue
Lots of great advice. LOL.
Tell her how hard it was to find a good massage therapist with all the ones out there offering more. Listen to what she says. If you get a sermon on how "those types" make it hard for her to make a living, agree with her and enjoy your MASSAGE. Otherwise, the subject of experimenting may come up.
Originally Posted by OldGrump
exactamundo!!! if she is a RMT and she's never hinted at anything extra, i'd leave it as it and find a body rub w/ extras woman. kinda easier to find them than a great RMT, imho.
I bet if you threw out her name and asked for pm's, you could find out something about her.
Originally Posted by Gypsy
oh yeah, sure publicly identify her and cause her all kind of grief!!
NOT!!!
I think this is a VERY good plan! Old Grump...I've MISSED YOU!
You really don't want to put her in an awkward situation and risk her throwing you out! Just tread lightly...
Originally Posted by vnurse
heed vnurse's words highly!!! she knows of what she speaks.