NEWBIES????

so what do ya'll recommend a sincere newbie do to build a positive reputation? it doesnt happen overnight obv, but what would you say the steps are moving forward, everyone starts as a newbie (hint hint)... Thx!

See newbie friendly providers :

BellaBee87
Crystal Kitty
Just Alisha
Sweet Lisa
Sometimes Sexy Roxanne
Busty Betzi
Darling Lisa
sxyveronica

This will build up your references . Also suggest getting a P411 account and building up at least 4 okays .

In regard to red flags & lurkers, I beg to differ from the general concensus posted in this thread so far. I have many clients who are lurkers and have been with me for years. Those gents are generally more discreet, avoid board drama, are very respectful & not looking for discounts or special favors for posting reviews or being a WK.

The only drawback to seeing newbies for me is the desire to avoid making a guy feel I'm being intrusive or putting his privacy at risk due to his initial reaction to requesting personal info for screening. I have many more reviews out in cyberspace which means I have literally hundreds of vouches for being legit. To a newbie, that could be somewhat overwhelming or even scare him off! *yikes* The gut instinct is definitely something you should tune into, but also pay attention to speech patterns. If he's nervous, probe to find out if it's due to the new experience or does he have something to hide? If you're not really sure about seeing him after talking on the phone, don't. If he really is interested in you, he'll keep trying or go w/ someone eles & come back when he has a ref. Either way, you gain experience in "reading" potential clients and may end up w/ a loyal customer in the future.

So, just remember that there are good clients via more than one channel of contact. Referrals to other men by regulars is another valuable source I've recently discovered. Thanks to you guys who rave to your friends. LOL Rascals! You're supposed to be DISCREET! SPANK YOURSELVES!!

Take care & have fun out there! That's what it's all about!!

Kitty Kat
XOXOXO Originally Posted by Kit-4-Kat

I love lurkers, they have nothing to prove. They have reasons for privacy and are generally great clients!

I love lurkers, they have nothing to prove. They have reasons for privacy and are generally great clients! Originally Posted by bustyamy

Speaking on behalf of all my fellow lurkers, the silent majority, we thank you for your support.

Homer is right... I'm probably still fairly new on the site, but not to the hobby. There's a learning curve to getting established. In the past, I've seen several BP providers in DFW, but didn't really know to ask about providing references or referrals. I really prefer this site for locating providers. Just feels safer.

I'm a newb and I never post, just saw this and thought I would pop my
Posting cherry. Didn't realize this was a red flag to providers. For what it's worth..

I can see both sides of the coin. For me, Being a Newbie, it kinda sucks, because since I'm new to all of it, I only want to get with verified providers. For my safety reasons, I don't want to walk into vice or any other LE, and it seems like that's the risk you have to take when your a noob. Because the trusted providers want references. Also I live in New Braunfels, and am always looking for close to home encounters

Try Rosiedaie in Wemberly .

Gurl your hot.I would be interested in a double..Dezirie

As a absolute newb, this is a topic I've given quite a bit of thought too. How do I get started safely? Everyone has something to lose, that's why this (and other) site exists.

Since this old but very useful thread has been bumped, I'll post the latest Newbie friendly list for you Newbies and Lurkers who want to build references:

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All the following require light or alternative screening !

AngelIsAFreak6969
Aphrodite
bbw juicy booty
Bridgette Ann
Catricia
Darling Lisa
Gold Coast Beauty
Jennatx
Just Alisha
lindsaypage
MsKristine
Shayla84
Spinner Ally Ray
sue_nami
Sweet Lisa
sxyveronica
Toya Titties
Victoria Lyn ( if you have seen someone else )

(listed in alphabetical order)

PLEASE do your research. Make sure that you Stay Safe and Have Fun

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I am newbie friendly, but will make you jump thru some hoops. Even then, if I get a weird vibe or something doesn't feel right, I won't do it. I love lurkers and newbies are always fun to "break in" hehe! The majority of people I see are not on a hobby board, but are high enough profile that they are easy to screen.

I am newbie friendly, but will make you jump thru some hoops. Even then, if I get a weird vibe or something doesn't feel right, I won't do it. I love lurkers and newbies are always fun to "break in" hehe! The majority of people I see are not on a hobby board, but are high enough profile that they are easy to screen. Originally Posted by Scarlett Rossi

Ditto

Being a newbie myself (and this being my first post haha) I've gone back and forth for over a year debating on seeing someone but end up not just out of fear for what I have to lose if I were to get caught. It does seem like there are plenty of ways to make sure that you play safe the majority of the time and I understand that completely when providers turn me down. Just a little scary throwing all your personal and employment info out to total strangers (p411 included). Ultimately there is risk on both sides of the table and for me I still haven't had the balls to just go through with it. So many smoking hot girls on here though (scarlett rossi good god..) so I have a feeling my cherry will be popped sooner than later!! Be Safe!

You are missing out !!!
Work with Scarlett, yes she may make you jump thru some hoops, but you will have a ROCK Solid reference.
Same with most ladies here or on the above list.

I would make the reference a "request", part of you giving up some info to a trusted, long time and well reviewed and heavy on the boards provider (that they act as a responsive reference). No guarantee, but you can always post if they don't deliver what they promised ....

oooppppsss, look at the time, gotta go now, lol

Stay Safe and start to have some Fun !!!