Lexxy, I'd say Syracuse also. Binghamton can be great, there are some fun gents here. But on the flip side, it appears there are lots of first timers here that have the interest, but are afraid of being screened. I love first timers personally, but if you don't have references, and you don't want to be screened or even join p411, then you hit a dead end.
By the way, you have beautiful eyes....