holly hell, speak of the devil

This "provider" should have an alert posted on her. No, not you Lexxxy, the one you speak of LOL
Makes me nervous since I am in the Buffalo area. Originally Posted by GP

All I know is that she is an 18 yo busty blonde from Canada that is bilingual with french as her first language. I will drill him for more info and give it to a mod to post in the mens room as soon as I can. I am still waiting to hear back from him over my last email trying to calm him down. I couldn't imagine what he is going through I feel bad. I feel he did all the right things and went out of his way for her and she is refusing to take care of the situation at hand.

This "provider" should have an alert posted on her. No, not you Lexxxy, the one you speak of LOL

Makes me nervous since I am in the Buffalo area. Originally Posted by GP

An alert on what exactly? A "provider" who used protection and when it broke decided that she wasn't comfortable using a hormone in her body, coupled with a moral decision on what she considered life/death, and is now, at the age of 18 making an adult decision, and is ready to accept the consequences of having sex unlike the 30-year-old who is cheating on his wife and children, lied to the "provider" about his name, e-mail, and has now thrown away the only way for her to contact the possible father of her child.

Sounds like there needs to be an alert for the ladies on here that there is a guy going around lying about his name and contact info who will possible impregnate them and then throw away any means of communication to let him and his wife know that their children will have a new half-sibling.

An alert on what exactly? Originally Posted by heatherelite

So you're still retired?

So you're still retired? Originally Posted by Doove

I guess not.

I guess not. Originally Posted by GP

That's not the impression i got from her post.

An alert on what exactly? A "provider" who used protection and when it broke decided that she wasn't comfortable using a hormone in her body, coupled with a moral decision on what she considered life/death, and is now, at the age of 18 making an adult decision, and is ready to accept the consequences of having sex unlike the 30-year-old who is cheating on his wife and children, lied to the "provider" about his name, e-mail, and has now thrown away the only way for her to contact the possible father of her child.

Sounds like there needs to be an alert for the ladies on here that there is a guy going around lying about his name and contact info who will possible impregnate them and then throw away any means of communication to let him and his wife know that their children will have a new half-sibling. Originally Posted by heatherelite

Thanks for the common sense..

I dont believe the thrAD anyways

looks like I retired just in time Originally Posted by heatherelite

OK, I'll bite.... the title of the post is combative right off the bat. You retired in time for what? If you are retired, then why are you still posting on a SHMB?

An alert on what exactly? A "provider" who used protection and when it broke decided that she wasn't comfortable using a hormone in her body, Originally Posted by heatherelite

No, the alert would not be on that, and you would be correct in she should be able to determine what "hormones" go in her body

coupled with a moral decision on what she considered life/death, Originally Posted by heatherelite

Nope, no alert on that either. That is between her and her maker. I nor should anyone here judge anyone on that.

and is now, at the age of 18 making an adult decision, and is ready to accept the consequences of having sex Originally Posted by heatherelite

No alert there either. She IS an adult doing adult things and it is her decision to make.

unlike the 30-year-old who is cheating on his wife and children, Originally Posted by heatherelite

Hobbying is cheating? That topic has been discussed before, and there are many people who believe it to be cheating and many who don't. To use an OPINION as fact in an argument as you did is an unfair debate tactic.

lied to the "provider" about his name, e-mail, and has now thrown away the only way for her to contact the possible father of her child. Originally Posted by heatherelite

I don't have any rock solid statistics, but I bet it is safe to say that 75%+ of guys use fake names, throw away emails and hobby phones. It is called safe hobbying and is all part of the rules that everyone preaches about how "not to get caught".

the only way for her to contact the possible father of her child. Originally Posted by heatherelite

REALLY????? Ever heard of the saying?.... "You don't pay a prostitute for sex, you pay them to leave AFTER sex."

I guarantee there is not a single guy here who hobby's and even remotely thinks he is going to have to worry about knocking up a provider.

Sounds like there needs to be an alert for the ladies on here that there is a guy going around lying about his name and contact info who will possible impregnate them and then throw away any means of communication to let him and his wife know that their children will have a new half-sibling. Originally Posted by heatherelite

Now you are really stretching.... This is hobbying and prostitution, not "Let's make a family".


NOW... this is what the alert should consist of..... I would even be kind enough to retract the word alert and just use the word warning or heads up.

"There is a provider named xxxxxxxx who does not have any form of backup contraception if a condom were to break, and if offered spermicide or the day after pill, would refuse."

That to me is important information that I'm sure many guys might like to know, just in case. This way we don't have to worry about little Mikey and Suzie's little half brother who could be on the way.

Now it is unlikely that this lady would get pregnant on a one time occurrence such as this. Finger crossed! Maybe this scare is something that might make her consider a secondary form of birth control. Let's hope!

I still dont believe the thrAD

I still dont believe the thrAD Originally Posted by JONBALLS

I'm not convinced it is 100% true either, but it does make for an interesting hypothetical debate.

I like legitamite thrADS

Yes we are all " whores and atms" so we are going by "honor amongst thieves" but what kind of a person would make up a story like that and how could it possibly be a' threAD". I believe it is a legitimate conversation and something each and every one of us runs the risk of encountering every date. I doubt someone I have seen monthly for years without a single cancellation would throw away his hobby phone and make up such an elaborate story and tell me he may have been exposed to an STD just to cancel a date with me, that is crazy talk.
Come on boys...really?!?!

Lexxxy, I am a 1 percenter. 99% true, 1% something just doesn't seem right with the story. I don't think it was necessary for him to goto such extremes on a SLIM chance she may be pregnant.

I would love to know how you feel about Heatherelites comments.

Here's the work-around: just aim for the mouth or the breasts!

I do worry about impregnating providers because I had a scare a few years back. So no vaginal ejaculations for me! It's her body, her rules. There's shit we can do after the fact.

I was a victim of condom failure. I knew the provider very well so there wasn't much concern about STDs, though I did take a 6 month precautionary break from the hobby. Well 6 months after our get together, I hear she's pregnant- 4 months pregnant! Yay! I fucking never did math so quickly in my life. Apparently, she did have to paternity test a dude- not sure if it was a civie or trick.

What would I have done if the child was mine? Probably give her the ole whoopsie-daisy down a flight stairs. Nah....I kid, I kid. I would have done the "right thing." No bad kids, just bad timing.

Yes we are all " whores and atms" so we are going by "honor amongst thieves" but what kind of a person would make up a story like that and how could it possibly be a' threAD". I believe it is a legitimate conversation and something each and every one of us runs the risk of encountering every date. I doubt someone I have seen monthly for years without a single cancellation would throw away his hobby phone and make up such an elaborate story and tell me he may have been exposed to an STD just to cancel a date with me, that is crazy talk.
Come on boys...really?!?! Originally Posted by Lexxxy

no need to explain yourself, Im sure everyone else thincks your completely honest about the story

Lost me at thyroid...