That is one thought I have. It?s a bit unfair on the wives. Because the industry caters mostly to males. But I might be wrong. Interesting discussion

This might help clarify :Eh, that's not us. He has low t issues so not giving him any isn't the issue. I am the cumslut, whore, and tramp in the relationship with him
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=551484 Originally Posted by pyramider
I would think just the opposite.....swinging is pretty much spontaneous ...and its finding the perfect couple to swing with and its much more personal....hobby ..you can pick the lady you want to use and lay down the rules and theres no drama or the other partner to satisfy..I thought the same thing about swinging.
Now if you want a MMF then the swing scene may be better for that Originally Posted by wildwooly1
I thought the same thing about swinging.
I don't want to swap. I don't want to fuck any guy but him. So, I think swinging would be out of the question. Originally Posted by redhead24355
Eh, that's not us. He has low t issues so not giving him any isn't the issue. I am the cumslut, whore, and tramp in the relationship with him.
Originally Posted by redhead24355
Eh, that's not us. He has low t issues so not giving him any isn't the issue. I am the cumslut, whore, and tramp in the relationship with himHoney, you are such a wonderful, wonderful wife!.
I'm the one who signed up for p411
I'm the one that picked the girl out and got the thumbs up from him
I'm the one that scheduled the session.
It gets my own curiosity with women out of the way. So it's not just for him. It's for us.
I find it sad many men hide it from their SOs anyway. I guess that is what makes are relationship different from most. Originally Posted by redhead24355
I stand corrected.He is going to a doctor, on meds, and it has increased..
If your husband has low t you need to get him into a doctor and get it increased and stabilized. Once that gets done he should perk up some. Then if you need help swinging and the hobby can fill in. But get the cause fixed before you venture into this arena. Originally Posted by pyramider
As one who partakes of the swinging lifestyle. There's misconception that you *have* to do this or that. You don't have to do anything you two don't want to.Thanks. I brought up swinging, but he wasn't into the idea really. I guess I'll look into it more. I just said I don't want to fuck other guys, never said no to women.
And since you indicated you only want to be fucked by by your spouse.
Would then, you two *hobby* for him to be able to fuck other women? And you do the watching? Or you two hobby together and only he does the fucking of other people?
Reason I ask. Is you want to partake in the hobby for your marriage. Yet you only want to fuck your husband and thus you ruled the swinging lifestyle out. Which, to me as a swinger. I personally feel you would do goo to start off in the swinging lifestyle, where it can be extremely sensual and erotic. And you do NOT have to fuck nor swap with anyone if you don't want to. But the over all erotic aspect of being in that environment is fucking sexy.
Where as the hobby can become an addiction, especially if you allow your husband to fuck other women. And it can be a very expensive addiction that he could or may partake of on his own at some point. Unlike the swinging lifestyle.
So give it some thought and you two communicate with each other before you delve into this adult lifestyle.
Good luck Originally Posted by Wicked Milf
Thanks. I brought up swinging, but he wasn't into the idea really. I guess I'll look into it more. I just said I don't want to fuck other guys, never said no to women.You know your husband better than any of us. If he's the 'going behind your back' kind, which way would you rather him do it?
Hobby for both of us. He doesn't care if he fucks any of them. The idea of his wife with another woman is hott. We just had the session. She made it into a great experience. She was more into me than him and my husband liked that. He didn't want to fuck her at all, but I had him go for it.
He isn't driven by sex so he wouldn't do anything unless I give him the okay too. So you are saying he is more likely to go behind my back in this hobby than the swinging lifestyle? Originally Posted by redhead24355