to me when i see "open minded " that means they won't judge me for wanting them to give me a foot job while a drink a fruity drink with an umbrella in it on the couch singing Margaritaville Originally Posted by LaStang
to me when i see "open minded " that means they won't judge me for wanting them to give me a foot job while a drink a fruity drink with an umbrella in it on the couch singing Margaritaville Originally Posted by LaStang*squirts more lotion between my toes* "If you like Pina Coladaaaas....."
Open minded, simply means what it says. We are open to suggestions. it does not mean that we do everything under the sun. I am a very open minded person. I judge no one for what they do. However, open minded, does not mean, (just for example), I am going to f**ck your dog. It kind of goes along the lines as to what is kinky to one, may be completely perverted to another. I can openly accept whatever floats your boat, that does not mean, that I have to participate. Originally Posted by RED PHOENIXRED PHOENIX hit it right on the head.... Ask. I just might be open to a specific act or fantasy. I may not but wont judge you as being a freak for suggesting it... In no way does it imply that you have the RIGHT to anything specific...
Okay, I've witnessed a trend when it comes to provider ads (here and elsewhere). The term open-minded gets thrown out there like it was yesterday's trash. Please tell me what does open-minded mean? Here's the way I read it. Open-minded means everything is on the menu, and as a hobbyist, I have every right to ask for whatever I want and the lady should not be offended by my request. So ladies, be careful of what you put in your ads. Originally Posted by Cpalmson
Above and beyond everything else...if we, (providers), weren't open minded, we wouldn't be in the hobby in the first place. We are the freaks, the sexually inclined, lust driven tramps, that men crave, for whatever reason. We are open to the things, that most civvie women, will turn there nose up to, look down,and berate a man for even having a kinky fetish, or wanting to have, more than a vanilla encounter. We are the innovative, free spirited, untamed, and sexually revolutionized, and we are the go to people, that allow you to be your naughtiest selves. We allow you the freedom to live out your fantasies, to explore your sexual nature, and to be the men you were born to be. Whatever, that entails. By the way, I am fluent in all languages... :-) Originally Posted by RED PHOENIXAt least us REDHEADED ones are! LOL However no Greek here....
Although you don't necessarily have the "right" to anything, it is a little insinuative to the woman being "open" to less conventional requests. Originally Posted by Calista_SynI guess so , too. It`s more in the directio of fetishes that are not necessarily as full blown to need a real BDSM provider.