I like to spend a little time getting to know her. After all, I picked her for a reason. I could have seen just about any other provider on this board or just saved my money. But I didn't, and it's nice to see a provider who recognizes that. So a few minutes of getting to know the person is vital for me and even though this is a job for the provider, I'd bet she'd rather enjoy her job than not. That being said, I don't even require the illusion of passion, but I do like for the provider to fuck me, whatever, like she wants to get it on with me. If she also enjoys it, more's the better. At the end of the session, it gets down to the fact that they're just people and so are we.