Asking for rates.

Now that the restriction on listing rates and services in ads has been lifted, you'll probably start seeing that info in the ads (once they realize it's ok now). There are definitely other places to get the info, but putting it in an ad that the guys are scrolling through will make it easier/quicker for them to make up their mind and probably save a bunch of back and forth contacts.

Yeah anyone offering those $60-80 deals sounds like trouble to me. Most everyone I have dealt with over the years has been in the $250 range. Occasionally there is an amazing deal out there like the porn star in Charlotte that was $160. But I have looked at a few ladies that have surprisingly high rates.

I have thought asking "how much would an hour of your time be" would be a nice way to ask without being obvious or blatant.