Is this normal or did i get ripped of?

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  • zme
  • 10-08-2012, 09:42 AM
No matter what the ad said if a guy paid for 30 minutes he should get 30. Even if it is just 25 minutes of conversation and cuddling. Any provider who thinks that the wording in the ad absolves them of that responsibility is just a lousy service provider and you need to have a review that describes your experience. Maybe the provider thinks that the ad justifies the behavior but you should let all hobbyists know that this is her idea of service. No need to be rude or insulting, just state the facts and everyone makes their own decisions.
Maybe you want to drop her a message letting her know your feelings first. If you were disappointed you should let her know. Maybe it will lead to her reviewing her own policies in the future.
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You got ripped off, but you learned a valuable lesson-- do your research. First, where did you hear about her? Backpage? Agency? Second, did she have any reviews? If you met some non-reputable lady, you are setting yourself up for a ROB-- Rip Off Bitch. If you want quality companionship, spend the time to look for quality ladies. Picking up the phone and calling the first lady you see on Backpage is a recipe for disaster. Which leads to the second point. Read reviews which BTW implies searching for providers who have reviews. A review will most likely tell you all you need to know about what to expect; however, if you are still OCD on services, ask her if you can get a second shot if you blow you wad in the first 5 minutes. For me, that is a must. I cum quickly the first time. A lady must offer MSOG, or I won't see her. Just so you know there is hope, I had the same thing happen to me 25+ years ago when I started hobbying. Of course back then, one and done was the rule for 90% of all girls, but I was able to navigate that scene and find girls who would offer multiples. It is just a matter of asserting you desires.
id say jr ripped u off and she did not ask if there was more gas in the tank. lesson learned,.... I would say just as the others said do your homework. i have been in this situation and lil head dumped before i was ready. then i have been on the other side of paying for hour and beat it up for hour. u win some u loose some.

if ur a quick shooter.....empty your load before session.
I am sorry to hear that.
The popular saying "get in and get out" is unfortunately the rules of engagement for some ladies, other than the clients overall experience; regardless of how long the appointment has been booked for. I agree with Old-T the more research you do on a specific provider that has piqued your interest the better informed you will be as far as the type of services offered. You get what you pay for.
Yazzy.
I called an escort and she came over. I paid for a half hour session. She began by "massaging" me and I came while she jerked me off.

She started getting dressed after that and left so she was only here about 5 minutes. Originally Posted by doomedhuh
You paid for 30 minutes and she only stayed for 5 so yes, I would consider that unfair. Next time, make sure that "MSOG" are on her menu to avoid this type of thing from happening. Take Care, Tatiana
well you did get taken advantage of..however..you know your body..and how it works...you can contrle your actions in this situation..if you paid for 30 minutes of your time..you could have easily asked her to slow down..it happens with me all the time..cuz im just too damn sexy for some guys..(hey dont hate)...
or rub one out before she gets there so your stamina is stronger and you can last longer..
i dont know..why didnt you tell her you have a full 25 minutes left? didnt you say anything or did you just look at her with a funny smile on your face as she walked out..gotta be proactive man..ijs..
I called an escort and she came over. I paid for a half hour session. She began by "massaging" me and I came while she jerked me off.

She started getting dressed after that and left so she was only here about 5 minutes. Originally Posted by doomedhuh
I wouldn't say you were ripped off, but it sounds like a miscommunication. One thing, since so many code words and innuendos are used in the industry, is you need to find out EXACTLY what someone means when they say they're offering X, or what you're getting when you pay for Y. I've never known any provider to get upset if you ask them to be specific (once they're comfortable you're legit). On the other hand, don't argue with them once they tell you what they will or won't offer.

For some girls, "an hour" means you get one pop, but you have up to an hour to get there. If you get to the end of your hour and you didn't pop yet, then time's up. Remember that these girls are seeing older guys who really do take a while to pop. Conversely, if you pop five minutes in, time's up. If you're younger and you expect to pop multiple times during your appt, you need to make that expectation explicit for her, and simply move on if she says no.

My experience has been that many girls will present their rates as a "special", a half hour rate, and an hour rate. The special usually means you get there, you get right down to business, you pop, and you leave. Half hour usually means one pop, but you can take a little longer. An hour, of course, leaves even more time for talking or kissing or whatever else you like to do, and is IMO the first realistic option if you want MPOP.
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well you did get taken advantage of..however..you know your body..and how it works...you can contrle your actions in this situation..if you paid for 30 minutes of your time..you could have easily asked her to slow down..it happens with me all the time..cuz im just too damn sexy for some guys..(hey dont hate)...
or rub one out before she gets there so your stamina is stronger and you can last longer..
i dont know..why didnt you tell her you have a full 25 minutes left? didnt you say anything or did you just look at her with a funny smile on your face as she walked out..gotta be proactive man..ijs.. Originally Posted by anita germane

Why are you helping him? He lasted five minutes .... Fucking showoff!!!
Also, if you became overly excited and came too quickly, she could have stayed for the remaining time and gave you a relaxing back rub. Atleast it's something. I just don't think providers should advertise a 30 minute rate and leave after 5 or 10 minutes, unless of course she had a good reason to. Like the gent was being rude to her or something.
Why are you helping him? He lasted five minutes .... Fucking showoff!!! Originally Posted by pyramider
This happens a lot....not just you. Some hobbyists have gotten so use to this treatment that they leave too after one pop....usually the newbies
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Interesting...
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didnt you say anything or did you just look at her with a funny smile on your face as she walked out..gotta be proactive man..ijs.. Originally Posted by anita germane
I know for me if they are already walking out then it's not worth it to say something because anything after that is just crap as she has already mentally left the room. When it happened to me early on, I just it as a lesson to read reviews more carefully and stage the appointment better.
I must be doing shit really wrong.

Normally when a guy pops in 5 mins I just continue the session with masturbation, ball licking, & dick sucking until he gets back on hard and cums in my mouth again; up until the full hour is over.

Am I really supposed to leave after the first load I swallow? Please advise.
I must be doing shit really wrong.

Normally when a guy pops in 5 mins I just continue the session with masturbation, ball licking, & dick sucking until he gets back on hard and cums in my mouth again; up until the full hour is over.

Am I really supposed to leave after the first load I swallow? Please advise. Originally Posted by RandomBlkChick
Random, no I would say you are doing the right thing when you continue the session after the hobbyist explodes! Whether you continue the date with cuddling, watching TV, conversation, a back rub or more salacious tongue activities, you should stay! You shouldn't leave after 5-10 minutes unless:

1. you were asked to leave
2. the gent is very rude, disrespectful to you

Keep up the good work Random!!