Hobby observations

Oh My Say It Aint So!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Jaci

I had spent a few days recently working at home, and here is what I noticed:

1) The guys who are always asking if I have free time during the day (my typical hours are evenings and weekends), suddenly weren't asking. It is as if they wanted a different obstacle.

2) Chat lizards can be obnoxious. For example, LusciousLacy. She claims to be a highly-educated medical professional, but presents topics that are far from medically-proven facts. If perhaps you question her (gasp!), she will openly insult you, as clearly not having the same credentials as herself. Really. Get over yourself. Too bad all those years in college didn't include English Comp.

3) Guys - really don't ask for BB right after hello. Don't ask for it at all. It shouldn't happen, and if it does, you deserve any subsequent consequences. Play safe.

4) Do just a little research. Look at showcases. Check P411. It is just looking for someone to fuck you - it isn't rocket science.

5) White knights aren't usually that worried about "making things right". It is more for them to look good and get laid for free.

I really tried to come back as a fun, low-volume provider, who really enjoys a nice session with a gentleman. What I found was very disappointing.There are a few great guys and some very sweet girls here. It is just amazing how the drama and rudeness have increased substantially over the years. (By the way, Lacy, that means "LOTS".)

Have fun, and play safe.

MyOwnPerson Originally Posted by YourGirl

I love you.

BTW, it appears that Tara Evans is back, should be interesting.

YG...

Sadly, ass hats and ass clowns abound in all walks of life. The hobby is no exception. Sorry that you seem to be experiencing an abnormally high level of exposure to them!

Best thing to do is simply let it roll off like water on a ducks back.

TP

First, I apoligize for all of the quotes, and I probably should have arranged them in a different order to make more sense, but I wasn't motivated to do so.

Close your eyes, take a deep breathe.
re-read everything you just typed...
if you are completely satisfied with it after calming down then by all means keep it up.
But I can say from watching this over and over....just delete it. youll thank yourself later
The hobby is just a hobby...don't let it make your hair fall out.
*kisses* Originally Posted by Anastasia Roberts

Best advise here. Ms. Roberts, you show a very good understanding of where this can lead, and any thread that requires popcorn is not going to go well.

Always best to blame others... Originally Posted by monkmonk

It is election time.

My comment to this stupid thread is:
Anastasia Roberts, I love your ass.
Torito Originally Posted by Torito

I fully agree she has a cute ass, that Ms. Roberts post is the most intelligent reply here, and this thread is stupid. But did that give you a right to hijack it?

YourGirl,
Good post... I agree with you 110%. You aren't the only one sick of the "I Love Lacy" show...it's old to a lot of us. Originally Posted by mercianna

And this is why I find it hard to get motiviated to go into chat anymore.

I love you.
BTW, it appears that Tara Evans is back, should be interesting. Originally Posted by rcinokc

Was there any reason to drag Tara into this? She has proclaimed to us that she will try to behave. I assume she has performed the obligatory BBBJ on all of the mods to allow herself to return to our world. There is no reason to hijack this thread and drag her into the fray.

AND with that, please carry on with whatever this thread can offer to the group.

Number 5, why didn't someone tell me about number 5.

You guys have been holding out.

LOL !

I love it ! A cat-fight in the guise of thoughtful observations...

Indeed, someone is unhappy. I am too ! Maybe thats why we migrate to this arena...

Throw in some ego, pride, self righteousness, and you too can be better than everyone ! At least enough to feel better about oneself.

I LOVE LACY..What is the point of this

Hot Damn Girl! Pull back on those reins just a little. Coming off as a complete bitch definitely isnt going to bring you 'the good guys'. There are plenty of them here and everyone knows you have to go through the bad to get to the good.

If you arent getting the business and clientele you would like maybe take a look at what YOU are doing, or not doing for yourself. Theres no way 1 single female is keeping you from making money...

Your post was rude. You pretty much just talked shit to the entire community, who are the ones that pay (or in your case, dont pay your bills) thats certainly not going to help your case! Your showcase could use some work as well, maybe some new pics???

Just to clarify - I was never implying any female was keeping me from making money. I was referring to how rude Lacy has been in chat to me on repeated occasions.

When I first entered the hobby, most men truly were respectful. There are now many more disrespectful guys than 10 years ago. The guys I have encountered over the past year have been pushy and not considerate of established boundaries.

Am I worried about business? Not in the least bit.

YG

Why can't we get back to the subject on hand ... Show thar taint.

I LOVE LACY..What is the point of this Originally Posted by exoticbabygirl

The point is that Luscious Lacy is unnecessarily rude & extraordinarily full of herself and the OP isn't the only one who feels this way.

Yourgirl, I know how your feel... the best thing to do is to just be the bigger person and realize that she only is making herself look worse and not you. People see that for what it is. Keep your head up and take Tony's advice.

As far as the men go, lol, men will be men...

My best advice is just to ignore who you must, screen shot and report to a mod those that go over the line and everything will be ok. I look forward to seeing you in chat.

Oh well I LOVE HER..never been rude to me..and everyone can feel the way they like lacy KEEP being you the men seem to love her too just my .2 cents

Lest we forget, the ignore button has magical and mystical powers...

PM with references sent to the OP.

Jus' sayin'....

Finally Im under Tony!!! See Im being a good girl...
Come & Kiss Me, Jaci