I use a verification services (such as P411, Date Check, etc.) so that I do NOT give out personal information. Like Cpalmson states, it is at my discretion that I give out any real life information. IF my verification does not suffice, I move on to another lady. Originally Posted by plainjoeJoe, that is my point of view as well, though I will give out references of other ladies as well on rare occasion if the person I'm trying to see isn't on P411 or DC).
I have to be comfortable with what I give out. She has to be comfortable I'm not LE or a psycho or rapist. If we cannot agree on what info serves both these purposes we part ways, no harm no foul.
The OP seems to think only his security matters. I don't buy that.