if i want flaky, i'll eat a goddamn croissant!!

thanks, tatiana. i do get all that, and i'm pretty flexible and fair. if a girl said, "hey, i need to bump you for a 2 hour deal, can we pick a new time?" (as long as it was, say, a half day notice), i'd be, like, girl get yo money on! it's business, just accord me the respect of being honest.

thanks, tatiana. i do get all that, and i'm pretty flexible and fair. if a girl said, "hey, i need to bump you for a 2 hour deal, can we pick a new time?" (as long as it was, say, a half day notice), i'd be, like, girl get yo money on! it's business, just accord me the respect of being honest. Originally Posted by john_deere

Well that seems fair enough. I don't know why anyone would be rude to you or ignore ya. Nice guys NEVER finish last in my book.

I can understand your frustration. I am not making excuses for the unprofessionalism of these girls. But keep in mind that this is a VERY complicated and PERSONAL business. What we do is very hard and challenging emotionally. Plus the fact that it is our secret lives without anyone knowing makes it harder. To get ready for an appointment, us girls have to not only be ready physically but also emotionally. Sometimes PMS, our personal lives (relationships, friends, hobbies, and tennis ..for me) get in the way and there is just no way to explain to clients therefore sometimes you hear some lame excuses. Hehe! Women are more emotional creature to begin with....and sometimes it's hard to be ready for an appointment when you are not in the mood. Of course, the more level-headed girls are able to pull themselves together, commit to the appointment and make every effort to 'perform' and actually have a decent good time with the gents. And these girls are the ones usually more successful with great reputation.

thanks, tatiana. i do get all that, and i'm pretty flexible and fair. if a girl said, "hey, i need to bump you for a 2 hour deal, can we pick a new time?" (as long as it was, say, a half day notice), i'd be, like, girl get yo money on! it's business, just accord me the respect of being honest. Originally Posted by john_deere

john_deere wait until you get one that bumps you and then when you are ready for your appointment she acts like no arrangement existed

then gives higher rates, still no apology to me for that fiasco but some austin area hobbyist got me some payback

one very nice provider told me "your actions are everything in the hobby"

john_deere wait until you get one that bumps you and then when you are ready for your appointment she acts like no arrangement existed

then gives higher rates, still no apology to me for that fiasco but some austin area hobbyist got me some payback

one very nice provider told me "your actions are everything in the hobby" Originally Posted by ThekNight

when that happens, it's a very thin line to cross over to not so nice anymore. i won't withhold names in that case.

The more you hobby the more you get to experience some of these jewels! And if you navigate uncharted territory as I do, you wouldn't believe what you run into.