Dear Mericanna
You need to get a lawyer on this matter. If he is making money off your pics, and you have still have rights. Your pictures are worth value to you.
That is why I don't like do to personal IT work for friends or providers because of the possible emotional issues. I don't mind doing few minor things or showing you some tricks I know. I dread that I spent hrs on the system, and you are not happy at the end.
Always separate the business from the emotion.
First, find options to get your pictures back to you.
Second, get another set made with someone.
Third, Don't let the stress of this take over your life.