- Guest081519
- 11-03-2012, 08:31 PM
- wheels69
- 11-03-2012, 10:49 PM
set it up SENSUALCITA
- david-9
- 11-04-2012, 02:01 AM
I would recommend to wait until after you were through with the hobby because if a guy really cares about you he ain't about to let you go f'n other guys to pay for school, bills, life and honestly, is that a good way to start a relationship? I mean, some would say that if he cares about you he should understand (if you are open to him about it from the beginning) but I wouldn't tell him where I advertise or where my incall was because it's only natural for guys to get jealous...........but love can come in all shapes, sizes and situations......like Rihanna sings(I think she's the one who sings it) "We found love in a hopeless place" hehe we are far from hopeless though but I don't know bout falling in love around here lalalalalala goodnight good folks.......kiss kiss kiss Originally Posted by XOXO KarlaAgreed.
- Rocket210
- 11-04-2012, 05:22 AM
I agree with Karla, try waiting till your done with the hobby. One main reason is health Risk when I have a so I give the hobby a break cause I would hate to pass something on to someone I say I love it's just not right. Next reason is it doesn't matter how nice or understanding a guy is he will never be able to sleep well at night knowing your servicing other men its in our code. And if he is ok with it dude has got issues and the relationship won't be healthy. Maybe just dating would be cool to see what's out their and if it gets seriouse I would really think about it. But usually when we meet someone worth anything it's easy to give up things that may harm the relationship. Good luck! It's hard to find a good person these days! Gym is always a good spot
- colt
- 11-04-2012, 06:25 AM
You better stop and figure out what you want from a relationship before you start down that road. Find that book single but no alone, society is changing. I just herd this line in a movie, Happy, happy only lasts a little while, depression lasts and lasts. Next time you go out to eat look around, the married couples are the ones not talking to each other. But what I want to know is who is she texting, it probably isn't her mother.
- Still Looking
- 11-04-2012, 07:57 AM
I would recommend to wait until after you were through with the hobby because if a guy really cares about you he ain't about to let you go f'n other guys to pay for school, bills, life and honestly, is that a good way to start a relationship? I mean, some would say that if he cares about you he should understand (if you are open to him about it from the beginning) but I wouldn't tell him where I advertise or where my incall was because it's only natural for guys to get jealous...........but love can come in all shapes, sizes and situations......like Rihanna sings(I think she's the one who sings it) "We found love in a hopeless place" hehe we are far from hopeless though but I don't know bout falling in love around here lalalalalala goodnight good folks.......kiss kiss kiss Originally Posted by XOXO KarlaI know of another song about a guy who had poop on his mustache. When you’re done laughing check your PM'S Karla LOL
- GentlemanCaller007
- 11-04-2012, 09:23 AM
I totally understand how you feel Vinny. Finding true love seems like one of those things we are just born wanting, a hunger that never goes away. It is one of life's hardest and greatest accomplishments right up there with career, kids, and house.
Vinny, you are a beatiful young lady! Attracting men would not really be hard for you. You just need to get in public places where men are and broadcast that you are available (flirt).
The Key is just making eye contact a little longer than is "polite" followed by a smile.
You have essentially told the guy, in no uncertain terms, "I Like you."
Then it either happens or it doesn't. It doesn't matter where you are.
The hard part for you is going to be sifting through all the "unqualified junk" guys that you also attract when you send out your signal. It can be emotionally draining and a LOT of work.
As far as whether to wait or not? Every day you wait is a day you can't get back. We only have so many...
I agree that no man who is truly looking for his soulmate is going to want to share his babe physically with the world... But I also think it's ok for you to make sure you have something worth quitting for before you quit. But only you will truly know and it depends on what life brings your way.
As far as locations ripe for fishing:
match.com is probably the best dating site. It gives you a chance to chat back and forth and get a feel for someone before you meet them. You can also SEE them before talking so you can get some of the chemistry check taken care ahead of time. It is also a MUCH faster/easier way of rejecting "unqualified buyers" LOL http://www.match.com/
okCupid is a free dating site. Very popular but I've never used it. I like the fact that people on match are paying (i.e. making a commitment, hence weeding out the non-serious)http://www.okcupid.com/
HIGH Quality/Posh "Lounge" Bars - like Silo's, CoCo Lounge. The Classy bars attract trendy professionals. They are less of a meat market/fast hook-up environment than "get drunk and f'ck" dance clubs.
Dance Classes - Salsa, Ballroom - these type of classes and "socials" (open dancing) are a great way to meet people. Similar to match, during the class you can scope out who you are interested in. With the class constantly rotating partners it gives you a chance to talk to and interact with a lot of different people. The open social and dancing gives (shy) guys an excuse to come talk to you (eliminates the ice breaker) then at a slower pace they can talk to you or come back later and keep building the relationship. Or you can just say, "No Thanks." Makes the whole rejection/acceptance process less hassle.
HEB - EVERYONE must eat. So at some point EVERYONE is at the Store. Key here is to go to the classiest markets, Central Market, the "Plus" Stores. The unique thing about this environment is that there is a MUCH higher % of genuine, "real" people here. The hard thing is that no one is really in hunting mode. So it makes connecting harder and there are a lot more married men in the mix. Also you can't use your wardrobe as much to attract.
Sleek designer dresses or flirty club clothes just look too blatant and out of place here.
The key here is eye contact and a smile.
Mall - Same game as HEB
San Antonio Adventure Club - SAAC is just a calendar of events. You can attend any and all that interest you. You will find many of the same people swimming around here. It gives you a chance to build your relationships more slowly. You are also exposed to a bunch of different people. This pool also has less players but also probably takes much longer to get to the relationship part since there is so much else going on. Not as direct in intent as match or clubs. http://www.adventureclubsa.com/ClubP...enuoptID=28339
Gym - Is nice because you already know you are getting a Fit partner, if you like the athletic type. The problem with this environment is that there is also a LOT higher ratio of stuck-on-themselves, treat women like sh!t, guys... Because they are fit they feel like they should be pursued and competed for (i.e. they feel entitled to date multiple partners)
This is the opposite of a club where the women are courted and fought for.
Summary:
Being in a relationship and in Love is the best (but they rarely last..)
Being single is VERY cool except for those lonely moments where it is not (but they pass).
Being in the wrong relationship sucks way worse than being Single.
Best of
Vinny,
and remember, in this world, if you are persistent you can achieve anything!
Vinny, you are a beatiful young lady! Attracting men would not really be hard for you. You just need to get in public places where men are and broadcast that you are available (flirt).
The Key is just making eye contact a little longer than is "polite" followed by a smile.
You have essentially told the guy, in no uncertain terms, "I Like you."
Then it either happens or it doesn't. It doesn't matter where you are.
The hard part for you is going to be sifting through all the "unqualified junk" guys that you also attract when you send out your signal. It can be emotionally draining and a LOT of work.
As far as whether to wait or not? Every day you wait is a day you can't get back. We only have so many...
I agree that no man who is truly looking for his soulmate is going to want to share his babe physically with the world... But I also think it's ok for you to make sure you have something worth quitting for before you quit. But only you will truly know and it depends on what life brings your way.
As far as locations ripe for fishing:
match.com is probably the best dating site. It gives you a chance to chat back and forth and get a feel for someone before you meet them. You can also SEE them before talking so you can get some of the chemistry check taken care ahead of time. It is also a MUCH faster/easier way of rejecting "unqualified buyers" LOL http://www.match.com/
okCupid is a free dating site. Very popular but I've never used it. I like the fact that people on match are paying (i.e. making a commitment, hence weeding out the non-serious)http://www.okcupid.com/
HIGH Quality/Posh "Lounge" Bars - like Silo's, CoCo Lounge. The Classy bars attract trendy professionals. They are less of a meat market/fast hook-up environment than "get drunk and f'ck" dance clubs.
Dance Classes - Salsa, Ballroom - these type of classes and "socials" (open dancing) are a great way to meet people. Similar to match, during the class you can scope out who you are interested in. With the class constantly rotating partners it gives you a chance to talk to and interact with a lot of different people. The open social and dancing gives (shy) guys an excuse to come talk to you (eliminates the ice breaker) then at a slower pace they can talk to you or come back later and keep building the relationship. Or you can just say, "No Thanks." Makes the whole rejection/acceptance process less hassle.
HEB - EVERYONE must eat. So at some point EVERYONE is at the Store. Key here is to go to the classiest markets, Central Market, the "Plus" Stores. The unique thing about this environment is that there is a MUCH higher % of genuine, "real" people here. The hard thing is that no one is really in hunting mode. So it makes connecting harder and there are a lot more married men in the mix. Also you can't use your wardrobe as much to attract.
Sleek designer dresses or flirty club clothes just look too blatant and out of place here.
The key here is eye contact and a smile.
Mall - Same game as HEB
San Antonio Adventure Club - SAAC is just a calendar of events. You can attend any and all that interest you. You will find many of the same people swimming around here. It gives you a chance to build your relationships more slowly. You are also exposed to a bunch of different people. This pool also has less players but also probably takes much longer to get to the relationship part since there is so much else going on. Not as direct in intent as match or clubs. http://www.adventureclubsa.com/ClubP...enuoptID=28339
Gym - Is nice because you already know you are getting a Fit partner, if you like the athletic type. The problem with this environment is that there is also a LOT higher ratio of stuck-on-themselves, treat women like sh!t, guys... Because they are fit they feel like they should be pursued and competed for (i.e. they feel entitled to date multiple partners)
This is the opposite of a club where the women are courted and fought for.
Summary:
Being in a relationship and in Love is the best (but they rarely last..)
Being single is VERY cool except for those lonely moments where it is not (but they pass).
Being in the wrong relationship sucks way worse than being Single.
Best of
Vinny, and remember, in this world, if you are persistent you can achieve anything!
- 82Vinny
- 11-05-2012, 09:32 AM
I Like that! ^ I even printed it out! If I began a serious relationship I would stop hobbying because this is a Hobby Extra ends and I am Low volume So I'm Good in that area. I just need to stop being a house huddler and get outta my house and go chill at the starbucks and enjoy the weather and some eye candy. I do not want to meet a guy at the bar. Because that is pretty much how I met all the other ones who didn't work out before. Nobody is really themselves when they drink alcohol either, so I'd like to meet a guy on his sober tip and see what he really is like then I'll get him drunk later. *wink wink LOL So if anyone knows of any cool events that are coming up let me know. I will also be getting the current to see whats good in the neighborhood!
Thanks Again for everyones fantastic advice. I think I'm getting out the house more now! Even my daughter in the last couple of days was like. Gee Mom where did you get this energy to get up and get out at? LOL
Thanks Again for everyones fantastic advice. I think I'm getting out the house more now! Even my daughter in the last couple of days was like. Gee Mom where did you get this energy to get up and get out at? LOL
- raedy4funn45
- 11-05-2012, 09:51 AM
You can not search out true love, it just walks into your life one day.
- coochiemuncher
- 11-05-2012, 10:17 AM
- wheels69
- 11-05-2012, 12:35 PM
- JohnnyYanks
- 11-05-2012, 12:40 PM
- Jten13
- 11-05-2012, 03:28 PM
I'm going thru same thing vin! No bar chicks for me it makes for a lot less action but the girls I do find are better for me anyways. Hope you find what your looking for but after we play!
- Still Looking
- 11-05-2012, 03:32 PM
- grunt816
- 11-05-2012, 10:32 PM
I always enjoyed meeting women at spontanious social events either private parties (gatherings, SuperBowl Parties, Jazz in the park). This is probably the best way to meet someone new because there are no expectations. Everyone has that thing that makes them most happy and relaxed when in certain settings. Good luck!