Gentlemen: How Important Is It?

If she doesn't the big O then I haven't work my tongue hard enough

I put down "not as," but that isn't at all the same thing as saying "not." The more fun my partner has the better, and helping her to an 'O' is fantastic. But to be honest, I have to say that if I'm not floating her boat all tha well, I still have no trouble enjoying myself.

I'm with tall cat

If it's gfe then it's essential. The whole point is the ego factor of knowing you're a good lover.

I would wholesomely concur. I found that I was a Lesbian trapped in a Fat man's body years ago and believe me I am always looking for the next buffet.

I once heard I wise Executive state to a lady, "Dear it's my job to get you good & off, if not but just a few times. This may take 20mins 45mins or 90mins but after you are spent it's my turn. DO NOT COMPLAIN IF I EXPLODE IN UNDER 2 MINS. PLEASE."

I think that the lady's satisfaction is of the utmost importance.

Taking the time and making the effort to get my girl off is more important than my O. My O is a given. It's going to happen! Mine is usually intensified by hers. I love to hear and feel a beautiful women get off. Her moans, hip rotation, bucking, watching her work with me to get off on my face, seeing her pinching her tits, her V squeezing my fingers and the resulting wetness of her O makes me hard enough to cut a diamond. Okay, I'm ready!

My O is almost instantaenous during or right after hers. I can go for hours, but when she goes I'm done.