Pull my hair...slap my ass...demand that I look into your eyes while I...?

Listen to the taint and many questions will be answered. Originally Posted by pyramider

ahhhhhh the right answer

I remember talking to a provider about how I fantasized about being asked/begged to cum in a providers mouth. I had never been "asked" to do it. I fucked the shit out of her and then she made sure I wasn't done and said, "I know what you want. I know how you want to finish." and she dropped to her knees and started an agressive BBBJ and started to beg me for it (c'mon Max, please cum in my mouth. Jack that cock off right into my mouth). I was done in like 5 seconds.

She asked me not to do a review and she is retired now.

It's all about communication. I would have never had that fun if I didn't communicate.

I think that once people see eachother regularly, then the "kink" comes out because they feel more comfortable after meeting several times. I mean think about it, when you meet someone for the first time, anything could happen. Chemisty isn't always guaranteed, people are intricate beings. I had guys be really shy on the first date, but after several dates they start to open up more and flourish. I guess my point is, sometimes it's hard for men to give 100% of their kinky side on a first date, which is understandable.

I agree with tm, I'll get nastier the more I know someone. But that's for kink. I'm always gonna dirty talk and bite and spank or choke, and push the limits.

I am thrilled to see so much input actually posted and not just in my inbox.
I hope to see more! I am fascinated.

Cream Pies, but that is a whole nuther story.

Sometimes I like to get real rough and I like to give the pillow a good fluffing before intercourse.

I am thrilled to see so much input actually posted and not just in my inbox.
I hope to see more! I am fascinated. Originally Posted by Lexxxy

Lexxxy,

I think I may be in love!

GREAT thread!

And yes I would love to fill your inbox

DD

Cream Pies, but that is a whole nuther story. Originally Posted by GP

Dirty talk fantasy is WAY hot in the heat of the moment. I can't help it, I'm vocal, saying "fill my tight (_inbox_) with your hot (_messages_)" is hot to me.
Don't get me wrong, creampie is the most amazing feeling ever and connecting...that's why dangerous scum bags ask hookers for it. I know you are a smart man and don't seek that in the hobby but a lot really do. BBFS has no place in the hobby or with people that have a lot of multiple partners. Even using protection with everyone but an SO testing is very important and a lot of Gents dont think about it.
A lot of providers chose not to have things in their civi lives (SO, children, BB with their SO...) because they chose the hobby over it.

Lexxxy,

I think I may be in love!

GREAT thread!

And yes I would love to fill your inbox

DD Originally Posted by DDarkness

Bowchickabowwhoaw!

I love being spanked and having my hair pulled Lexxxy you made a great thread girl!!! This is going to be interesting!! Originally Posted by Sweet Destiny

I wish that I had read this post earlier, lol

I used to be shy! I am submissive into fetishes and I didn't want to weird the girl out so I would barely mention something mild. Now, I am look for girls who specifically advertize fetishes so there is no problem!!!

Next time you're in Rachacha Lexxxy, we need to get together and heat things up a bit by talking about this stuff. I'm a bit shy, but also have a sense and appreciation of adventure...I'd love some "help" in "opening up" a bit...

I wouldn't say I'm shy, but I try to be respectful and somehow, someway, without totally killing the mood, get some sort of ok or permission to take it up a notch. I can recall once in doggie with a provider, playfully asking if she likes her hair pulled, swear her head spun around ala Linda Blair in the Exorcist and made some sort of comment regarding clawing my eyes out if I touch her hair. Later she apologized/stated how long etc it takes to do her hair etc. Soooo glad I asked.
But I don't tend to just jump into the more "naughty" or kinky stuff -- my idea of which is probably pretty tame by comparison lol

Rather than being shy about being dominant, I'm actually shy about being submissive *blush*

It's a little odd for me - I enjoy a position of (some) authority IRL, and have what many would call a "dominant" personality (I prefer assertive, but w/e.) when it comes to sex, though, I LOVE being dominated. Face-sitting, Smothering, ass-worship, all amazing! I find it tough to ask, though, because it's so out of character for me. Anyone else feel the same way? Thoughts, ladies?

P.S. If were talking our wildest kink, I guess mine would be a women "forcing" me to dato... I get excited just thinking about it *blush again*