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Sweetie, if you're not getting replies on your requests, let us ladies know. There are numerous reasons for it. Originally Posted by babee

What she said.....It truly infuriates me when people will take advantage of the system but refuse to contribute to it.....PM me with info please.....Thanks.

BTW, the only thing about you that has me pissed off is you live too damn far away from me .....

Well BigC i'm traveling i might have to make a stop threw Jackson soon.I just don't know much about that area

Well, holla at me and let me know what it is you need to know about the area and I'm always happy to help.....

bless ur heart....I had a website and took it down cause of a stalker that was getting crazy...he would get mad and call the po po a and the po po was calling me....but there are legit providers that know me...hope it gets better sweetie....

I will keep all this in mind and ty all for the help.

Gloria, I talked to Belinda last night about your "Memphis issue".

1) That provider doesn't do phone refs. Her clients should know that. They shouldn't have given you her phone number.

But that doesn't excuse her behavior at all. I give phone refs only to ladies I have met - sooo not that many. When I do get a call from a provider I don't know, I ask them to email me the request. I usually do it without calling them every name in the book. But, hey we are all different.

2) You weren't the first and I bet you won't be the last to be cussed by this "lady" ...sooooo.....look at it as being in good company if that helps?

3) If you have issues with getting replies - let the client know so he will quit using that person as a ref. No sense in more people having to suffer unnecessarily. A lot of guys have no idea they are giving bad refs.

Hope it's better today.

Thanks... I try to be reference friendly because I would appreciate it in return. I usually email when checking out references. I use a template I wrote when it is a provider I don't know well. If you want, I can PM it to you.

Smooch!

Lea

Well been doing alot of reference checks and screening like i have been told to do to keep my little ass out of trouble but really haven't been getting anyone to respond back to let me know if they checkout or not.But for you Lea thanks for letting me know about the once i asked about.

As being a ass kisser well i really don't know if i am or not,but i do try to be honest. Originally Posted by Gloria

my gloworm,
you know i love you even with all the shit luck that you have had in the past, but we only learn from mistakes and grow with knowledge. just take these great ladies advice and you will learn who to trust and who not to trust.
i myself do not take any BP girls or agency or AMP as a reference, and alot of guys will try to use those. if the ladies that are given as references are not part of this board or i have not heard their names less than 3 times, i will not contact. you can always get other methods of verification from the gentleman, but it will be the least that they are willing to give. if you dont trust anything that is being given to you (by gut instinct alone) then the almighty dollar wasnt worth it.
now hurry up and bring your rotten ass home!!!

Just keep doing what you are doing.You are the first on my list when I make my way there.

Keep your chin up Gloria.....ya can call me if ya need any info!!!

Thank all of you for the advice.My Memphis trip was good,as for the provider that was rude was no big deal i just hung up on her.It was just a little disturbing because evrytime i have got my little ass in trouble(quote)they say they get us because we all don't work together like a team like they do)Honestly they are right.

Now i am doing reference checks and verifying them before i see them.Thanks to some of the ladies on her like Belinda,Lea,Dallas,Babee,yes you to fd150 and Sara and a few other ones that i have heard good things about that i can trust.

Now for you Belinda as far as me bring my ass back to the coast.I really don't think i'll be coming back there except for a visit time to time.To much drama and bullshit down there and plus my rep as been tarnished pretty good because of BS.You know the reasons i didnt come to the M&G and so does another sweet gentleman on here.
But bank on the next M&G i'll be there if JAG took into consideration of the pool table.

It was my pleasure entertaining you guys on the coast and meeting you.

Gloria, I talked to Belinda last night about your "Memphis issue".

1) That provider doesn't do phone refs. Her clients should know that. They shouldn't have given you her phone number.

But that doesn't excuse her behavior at all. I give phone refs only to ladies I have met - sooo not that many. When I do get a call from a provider I don't know, I ask them to email me the request. I usually do it without calling them every name in the book. But, hey we are all different.

2) You weren't the first and I bet you won't be the last to be cussed by this "lady" ...sooooo.....look at it as being in good company if that helps?

3) If you have issues with getting replies - let the client know so he will quit using that person as a ref. No sense in more people having to suffer unnecessarily. A lot of guys have no idea they are giving bad refs.

Hope it's better today. Originally Posted by babee

Okay, now I know why she is so concerned. I echo what Babee says and know who she is talking about. When I first moved to Memphis, this provider was so mean to me every time I tried to get a ref. Problem is, she is probably in the top 3 of girls in the Memphis area that guys use.

The best way to get a reference is to have the hobbyist submit an OK request from a verification site from the provider he has seen if he plans on using her as a reference. That way the provider does not have to be contacted.

In my experience, if I have seen someone once or even twice, since I don't keep records, and don't take this as an insult, I don't remember you. If it has been a long time, people sometimes change.

I do not take phone calls from providers. The problems that were stated a year or so ago with one of our hobbyists on here and his wife, or any wife that could call for that matter.

So guys, if you want to use a provider I suggest getting verified thru date-check or P411

P411 and datecheck don't mean anything.LE uses compromised accounts to bust girls all the time...If I get a request from p411 I always contact his latest ok's to find out something about the guy that I can us to connect him to the profile.If he does not have any oks I screen him just like he was a newbie.

Uhumm (clearing throat).