Dirty Talk

Dirty talk is great mutually as long as its not fake and awkward.

Personally I think it is contrived and patronizing. It reminds me of two other contrived and patronizing enterprises: phone sex and porn flicks. When I'm with a provider, I enjoy some of the more subtle non-verbal communication as well the moans/groans you know are genuine. I'm not opposed to the encouraging words like "give it to me" or "harder" or "fuck me" while engaged in the act. I just don't need dirty talk as foreplay.

Cool thxs!!! I just wanted to get different points of veiw!! Dirty talk is great but when it takes a left turn then its a real turn off!!!
Thxs all!!!!

When a man talks dirty to a woman, it's sexual harassment. When a woman talks dirty to a man, it's $3.95 a minute. ~Author Unknown
Quote of the day!!!

I really enjoy giving and receiving, but I try to take my ques on how the man is interacting with me. I also enjoy being called nasty names! It just really depends on the mood.

Dirty talk that comes natural is awesome. It's a lot like conversation. When two people click, their conversation just seems to flow. Same is true in dirty talk. When two people have chemistry, the dirty talk just flows naturally, freely and heightens the bcd experience.

Completely agreed - its almost an art form.

I like dirty talk if, as many have stated here, it is not fake sounding.

LOVE IT!

I like to have all my senses stimulated . . . sounds, and talk, when a natural progression of the mood created, are a definite added layer of richness to the experience . . .

A stripper of mine that danced for me all the time, knows I have a stocking and feet fetish, but she started talking about feet, and dirt, which is an absolute turnoff for me. Gotta be clean well manicured feet. Originally Posted by pairofhearts33

I recently learned that a number of footies like 'em dirty. Your friend apparently thought you were of the soiled persuation, an honest mistake. So for you it has to be dirty clean foot talk rather than dirty dirty foot talk? Maybe you should pick a simpler fetish?

Evidently, lots of people like dirty talk.

But for whatever reason, I don't like it -- at all.

I don't talk dirty to women, and I don't want women talking dirty to me.

Being suggestive &c. can be sexy. Being outright just doesn't do it for me.

(*shrug*)

Personally I think it is contrived and patronizing. It reminds me of two other contrived and patronizing enterprises: phone sex and porn flicks. When I'm with a provider, I enjoy some of the more subtle non-verbal communication as well the moans/groans you know are genuine. I'm not opposed to the encouraging words like "give it to me" or "harder" or "fuck me" while engaged in the act. I just don't need dirty talk as foreplay. Originally Posted by Cpalmson

TOTALLY agree. It comes off as fake most of the time, especially during foreplay when you haven't even gotten into it.

But occasionally I get so hot and bothered BCD that words come out of my mouth that my mother would definitely NOT be happy about lmao!

Dirty talk is fine. Can't hear it when in a thigh head lock though.

Dirty talk is great mutually as long as its not fake and awkward. Originally Posted by TINAMONET

..... I once shouted "FUCK YOU ......" to a provider, does that count?? Although awkward, was definitely not FAKE....

Agree with most here, as long as it is genuine and not contrived it can definitely add to the moment. But gawd.... PLEASE don't call me "daddy"....

-PT-

But gawd.... PLEASE don't call me "daddy"....

-PT- Originally Posted by PT4ME

OMG you don't know how how much that whole "daddy" thing creeps me out!!