Sometimes a man's heart is elsewhere, but just the intimate contact (cuddling, holding one another, letting him stroke you, things of that nature...) is all he wants... Especially, if the man is grieving, or views intercourse/sexual acts, in particular, to be disloyal or adulterous...possibly sacred, in some way, or may even be so broken-hearted that performance may be an issue he doesn't feel up to confronting. There are a lot of reasons, in my experience, to explain "pay-for-NO-play", lol...they're just usually a little more deeply-rooted in the emotional state, rather than the libido, of the man in question.I resemble that remark. I was severely injured years back and spent a LONG time re-habbing. I had no intimate contact with women for quite a long while. One of the very first things I did when I was able to get around on my own again was to schedule a session with one of the women here. I couldn't have sex, per se, (no erection, no orgasm) but just to feel a woman's touch and body, caresses and kisses was intensely satisfying. I couldn't afford an overnight, to include sleep, but I certainly thought about it, a lot.
TWQ Originally Posted by The White Queen
The touching and intimacy has always been key for me, in any encounter. That's why I usually schedule multi-hour sessions and why I look for, what I call, extreme GFE experiences.