How Do You Deal With Hobby Drama?

Drama, unfortunately, will always be apart of our community...because of the diversity of the members, our interactions, and various contributing factors. There's a saying by Max Lucade that rings so true, "Conflict is inevitable...but, Combat is optional."

The way I've dealt with past drama is by taking responsibility...for my share of the blame...for the things that I have may done wrong...or in handling a situation badly, then making my apologies.

Getting through the HURT and DISAPPOINTMENT...that I experienced...from being betrayed and slandered...was by offering FORGIVENESS, and going forward.

We can make ourselves as miserable as we want, or change our way of thinking...to become a more positive, and happier person.

I wish that for you Malaya, but more than that...happiness that you so richly deserve. At the end of the day...we all have to be good with the decisions we make.

Your TRUE friends will NEVER steer you...in the wrong direction...no matter what price they may have to pay...to help you down that road.

Hope you start to feel better and get the rest you need!

Originally Posted by Likinikki

Wow, don't get on the boards for a while and see what you miss!

That was a Great post Nikki! I especially like the quote.

With that being said, Malaya you and I have had a few little disagreements in the past, but I wish you nothing but the best. I may be able to help with your ex finding a job and some other things as well. Call me if you still have my number. Actually, I'm not sure if you ever had it so I'll pm it to you with what I'm doing and see if I can help or not. I hope you and yours have as good of a Christmas as possible.

It's a shame to run across it here.

I come and visit with the nice Providers here to escape Real World stuff and drama.

Of late, I have experienced drama with the last few Providers i've seen. They are not causing me drama and I'm not the subject or involved in the sphere of it. But it affects me. It's because I do care for those I see and it hurts me to see them in trouble/pain and I can't seem to help them out of it. I always hope that what I can do eases their troubles.

That was an excellent post, Likinikki.

Me? I just throw up dub'dueces and get on with it.

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Malaya I totally get your fustration mamacita....there was a time I let drama get to me....we all as providers have visited that dark place...

Ignore ignore ignore delete twice mamacita....

Words they type is the worse any of these meanies can accomplish....You give them power paying attention to that crap...

By the way im the one who gave Pepper the idea to post to help you....hope your getting all the help you need baby girl!! Peppers doing good now ...thanks to all the help So I told her that helping others is food for your soul!!!

Merry Xxxxmas everyone may all you horny beautiful people get laid!!...

Especially all the good people helping the ones in need!!!

May all you hypocrites & jerks get coals rammed right up your naughty booty!!(you know who you fucken are)

Likinikki: intelligent... inspiritational and thought provoking... very good post... plus 10!!!!

Drama, unfortunately, will always be apart of our community...because of the diversity of the members, our interactions, and various contributing factors. There's a saying by Max Lucade that rings so true, "Conflict is inevitable...but, Combat is optional."

The way I've dealt with past drama is by taking responsibility...for my share of the blame...for the things that I have may done wrong...or in handling a situation badly, then making my apologies.

Getting through the HURT and DISAPPOINTMENT...that I experienced...from being betrayed and slandered...was by offering FORGIVENESS, and going forward.

We can make ourselves as miserable as we want, or change our way of thinking...to become a more positive, and happier person.

I wish that for you Malaya, but more than that...happiness that you so richly deserve. At the end of the day...we all have to be good with the decisions we make.







Your TRUE friends will NEVER steer you...in the wrong direction...no matter what price they may have to pay...to help you down that road.

Hope you start to feel better and get the rest you need!

Originally Posted by Likinikki

Do not allow others to dictate your mood or thought process / stay true to what is in your heart and your road will be paved with glorious blessings. People speak harsh words to disguise their own hurt and low self esteem. At the end of the day we only answer to one and the rest can fuck themselves with a pickle. Love you sweets -

"stay true to your heart....people speak harsh words to disguise...at the end of the day we answer to one...fuck them with a pickle"

Interesting comments...but how does that work when " answering to only one", but then get on SHMB and asking for help from others...I guess answering to just one, expands to more than one in this case when realizing one can be a very lonely number in times of need....personally I just luv kosher pickels, lol

BTW...this post is not aimed at OP, just some thoughts on FWA comments

I avoid by not putting my business on here.
Only hobby related...
Nd sometimes I can't help nd get angry back at the comment ppl put so I turn my attention to other things.( child, shopping,sex...)