Has the hobby kept you from moving on in life?

Certainly nothing wrong with considering your hobbies when chosing a place to live. Would you move from Colorado to Florida if you loved mountain climbing? Or to the middle of the desert if sailing was your thing? As far as this hobby, you can certainly find willing women most places, but my experience is that the amount of info about those women (in the form of reviews) is lacking in other locales. Maybe I am just not looking at the right websites as I tend to stick with this one.

It kept me out of seminary school.

Just kidding. I went.

As a limited time offer I am trading indulgences for hobby time. Originally Posted by bojulay

"As soon as the coin in the coffer rings, the soul from purgatory springs."

It kept me out of seminary school.

Just kidding. I went.

As a limited time offer I am trading indulgences for hobby time. Originally Posted by bojulay

+1. Ah, you must be catholic.

Cost of living adjustments do not cover the differences in cost of living. I had an offer to move to a new position in the Chicago area. Just the housing costs were double what I was paying at the time. Then when one factors in the taxes, insurance, fuel and food costs ... I stayed where I was. Originally Posted by pyramider

That's my fear. In looking into how much more expensive Cali is, especially SF, sure the company would bump my pay up to equivalent pay but due to the increase in taxes, fuel, food, housing, etc I would actually be making less. It's really a conundrum because a lot of times I feel like there's nothing for me here in Fort Worth - a lot of my old friends are married and live outside of FW and the single ones have left Texas - but at the same time something is keeping me here. I'll probably end up passing on the Cali position. Grass might just be greener where I am.

Never, ever, make a career decision based on sex, whether in the hobby or non-hobby. Doing so is a sign of weakness. I do not mean to sound harsh. Trust me, you will adapt to a new location. The only question you need to ask is whether the new position enhances your career. Best of fortune to you.

It kept me out of seminary school.

Just kidding. I went.

As a limited time offer I am trading indulgences for hobby time. Originally Posted by bojulay

That's pretty funny bojulay, but I don't know whether I should laugh or not.

+1. Ah, you must be catholic.



That's my fear. In looking into how much more expensive Cali is, especially SF, sure the company would bump my pay up to equivalent pay but due to the increase in taxes, fuel, food, housing, etc I would actually be making less. It's really a conundrum because a lot of times I feel like there's nothing for me here in Fort Worth - a lot of my old friends are married and live outside of FW and the single ones have left Texas - but at the same time something is keeping me here. I'll probably end up passing on the Cali position. Grass might just be greener where I am. Originally Posted by rc83

In my case, I laid it out: more headaches + more responsibilities = less net dollars. That is not a good formula.

Do what you want. If you can afford the SF market go for it. If you cannot, then do not move. By market, I am not referring to the hobby.

That's pretty funny bojulay, but I don't know whether I should laugh or not. Originally Posted by bangalores

Nether dose my Rabbi, Oy Vey!

If somebody is going to pay you to live in the Bay Area, a short drive from Sonoma, Dry Creek, Russian River Valley and Monterrey wine country, you don't wanna go, send it my way!

You can rent pussy anywhere, you can't get the NorCal experience anywhere but NorCal.

It is certainly conceivable that the hobby opportunities here might keep someone from leaving the Dallas area; but that very same consideration might motivate a guy to relocate to a place like Dallas (or at least to pursue a career path which enables him to finance the occasional visit). For every time I've cursed this addiction of mine, I've blessed it ten times for the new and interesting places it's led me.

My first pay for play ever was in Sacromento.

It has both helped me move on from deep personal hurts, and kept me from moving on to new personal relationships.

Looks like a win-win.

San Francisco Bay area is prime hobbying grounds, much like DFW. A bit more expensive, but then again, everything out there is. Great place to live. One of the three places I've considered retiring to. Right now, it's coming in second. But it's a close second.