Hobbyist/Providers-- What's your definition of an ATF?

Atf for me means .....once the appointments over, youre already anticipating the next one

ATF, is someone you enjoy spending time with. You feel very at ease with. :-) Originally Posted by Sonya Playmate

bingo!

ATF to me means pretty much what everyone has said. It's more than just playing. It's someone you connect with and enjoy being around even if there is no play. Someone that you see regularly because you enjoy spending time with them. I like being an ATF. Makes me feel special.

I mean memories...

I'm still a newbie but I've had a few very memorable ladies that provide me with much more than a session. The term ATF is troublesome for me in some ways because there is my current favorite, recent favorites, and retired favorites that live in memory. I occasionally re-visit recent favorites, and sometimes they become the current favorite again. It's confusing, I know.

I understand the desire to find the next hot babe but that particular chase hasn't worked well for me. I live vicariously through a few hardlegs I know who have much better game, and try to learn from them. But I'm a big old dog and I have limited capacity to learn new tricks. I'm much more comfortable with my fav's who know how to lead me over the edge. I occasionally find a new one in a social setting or through recommendations which I greatly appreciate.

I agree with Sonya Playmate entirely:

Originally Posted by Sonya Playmate
ATF, is someone you enjoy spending time with. You feel very at ease with. :-)

Hope I get a "wee"!

I think my thoughts have already been stated.

Kinda confuse by your response FL. Maybe guys are always looking for the next thing. Or in your example, a quantum entanglement of string theory proportions. But when the model fits the theory of so perfectly, why bother?

Trouble is, the term ATF is just about as subjective as the term GFE because everyone has their own criteria in determining one.

For me, an ATF would be one who I would never grow tired of, never lose any desire for, and who is a true joy to be with no matter what the activity may be.

I have found my ATF!!! Woo Hoo!!!

My ATF clients are the ones who do NOT price HAGGLE... ask for free or reduced sessions because they have a " big cock" ( lol ) or try conman tactics like " ill be a regular baby how much is my SPECIAL price!"

it is most definetley all about connecting... laughing and enjoying the company of another to the point that it brings a huge smile to your face knowing and seeing said member's name in your inbox or on your phone. My atfs know who they are

ATF'S I have a few in mind ........... but not sure if I will ever say

My ATF clients are the ones who do NOT price HAGGLE... ask for free or reduced sessions because they have a " big cock" ( lol ) or try conman tactics like " ill be a regular baby how much is my SPECIAL price!"
... Originally Posted by Ginger Lovelace

I *NEVER* let the dollar get in the way of the experience.
As soon as you conjoin them you are changing the whole perspective.

So, those that are fiscally motivated, choose the monetary waters you are comfortable with and leave that part of the equation alone.

I can't see how people haggle when services and such are clearly posted.

To me, an ATF would be the girl that never makes it seem like its about the money. I know its about the money for her, but never make it feel that way to me. Make it about the sex. And she's listened to me as we talk preferences, fantasies, kinks, etc and SHE brings them into the session as if she really wants to make it fun for me.

And if I hear from her between meetings--either via text or PM, that elevates her even more.

In short, for that one or two hours, we're friends. I treat her respectfully, and vice versa.

yea, i liked your revised, point

it's really cool but hard to find

To me an ATF is someone my SO and I can share special times with and have special memories of - like giving us a surprise 4some for our 20th wedding anniversary. Be sure to check out that review, it was a memorable, special time for all of us.....
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=295818

To me, an ATF would be the girl that never makes it seem like its about the money. I know its about the money for her, but never make it feel that way to me. Make it about the sex. And she's listened to me as we talk preferences, fantasies, kinks, etc and SHE brings them into the session as if she really wants to make it fun for me.

And if I hear from her between meetings--either via text or PM, that elevates her even more.

In short, for that one or two hours, we're friends. I treat her respectfully, and vice versa. Originally Posted by RickO'shayRabbitt

To me, an ATF would be the girl that never makes it seem like its about the money. I know its about the money for her, but never make it feel that way to me. Make it about the sex. And she's listened to me as we talk preferences, fantasies, kinks, etc and SHE brings them into the session as if she really wants to make it fun for me.

And if I hear from her between meetings--either via text or PM, that elevates her even more.

In short, for that one or two hours, we're friends. I treat her respectfully, and vice versa. Originally Posted by RickO'shayRabbitt

I love this answer