When is a "Newbie" no longer a "Newbie"?

Focus on fucking not a label. Next thing you know you’re a veteran!

I agree with the " there is no definitive timeline" aspect. I've been on the board over two years, don't have many posts, and only two reviews. However, I've been able to receive verification approval from the providers I choose to see. If your main concern is getting a "No" from someone you really are interested in I recommend you be patient, have fun with the multitude of other ladies here, and then submit your request again in the future. Really no down side there!

Happy Hobbying!

JT

One thing I haven't seen mentioned that I also think is important and that has been very helpful for me: once you have a good rapport established with two verified providers, ask for them to vouch you on to the invite list for the social mixers. Nothing beats face time in a neutral setting to establish a comfort level and get you a quick and positive response to an appointment request. Originally Posted by PDid

Nailed It!

Yep