Aftercare ...

I have found this to be a VERY important element of play even if the time spent together isn't super intense, it's important to take care of the person afterwards.

Even in a p4p format.

What are some ways that you sooth your playmate afterwards? I find that holding someone and offering some water works really well.

Any other suggestions?

Elisabeth

P.S. I'm waiting for some smart ass remarks, too! Originally Posted by ElisabethWhispers

Great question thank you for asking. Enjoy concluding moments of passion in various ways depending on what they like... but if cuddling with convo is the finale 5 minutes at least, time permitting. Appreciate variety as well as the simple things.

I love to lay crossways with my head on their chest. Then they can get a handful of boob!

the older i get the more "before care" is important...conversation, interest, intelligence, some sort of warmth and realness

the older i get the more "before care" is important...conversation, interest, intelligence, some sort of warmth and realness Originally Posted by nevergaveitathought

I agree with Never...before care is important too, and I would go so far as to say its as important as aftercare.

As far as aftercare goes, drinks, talking, cuddling, and laughing work best. I dare say, some of the best aftersex I received is from Ms Athena; she is as smart as a whip, has great and unique insights, and I've found her to be quite knowledgable about a great many topics, both in and out of the bedroom. Dallas Rain and Jade Nicole also excel at giving good aftercare, IMO.

Never leave.... find a way to keep warm / moist towels near the play area. I'll have to ask one of my friends how she does this....but she never runs off to spit or clean up.

Aftercare? What's that?
I just press the escape hatch button and out they go!

In all seriousness, I love, LOVE giving and receiving massages after..well you know

I just press the escape hatch button and out they go!
Originally Posted by Fararri

I was wondering how I ended up in that sewer... LOL

I was wondering how I ended up in that sewer... LOL Originally Posted by adistantsecond

Wasn't it a thrill?

LOL Yes. Reminded me of the slides at the great wolf lodge

cuddling & convo.....and I usually have drinks and a bowl of m&ms to munch on afterwards! Originally Posted by DallasRain

dallas did u love the mint or rasberry m&ms ? Don't forget the dark chocate kisses. I always offer a foot and body mssage before and after Originally Posted by shade21

i suggest dark chocolate as well. and really good dark chocolate.
Lindt, ghiradelli, perugina, even dove dark.
hershey's dark choc kisses will do in a pinch.

just think of all the antioxidants you'll share


really good fruit juice is another thing for after care.

cuddling & convo.....and I usually have drinks and a bowl of m&ms to munch on afterwards! Originally Posted by DallasRain

Dallas, do you use the same bowl of m&ms and do you share them with your client? That is kinda like the mixed nuts at the local bar. You don't want to know where the hands that have been in those nuts have been.