NBA....I just don't get it.

Here we go again on this one Good luck solving this debate. I am curious to see if it happens My 2 cents on this subject is out there already.

SMH

I'm just slutty, I love me some man meat, a kind sexy gentleman is just that, I do not discriminate race, creed, tribe, religion, or nationality. I'm and equal opportunity provider, lol. Disrespectful people can come from any walk of life. And the same applies to respectful people, It is about a persons character more so than melanin. Again, I have said in the past how I feel about this, lol, can not re hash, Good day! :-)

I have seen this gentleman a couple of times, he is always polite and always a gentleman.
It can be frustrating to see a girl that you would really like to have fun with and get hit with NBA policy. As long as a man treats me with respect and talks to me intelligently, I wouldn't care if he was purple with green spots! Originally Posted by Nicolet

He is a great guy and client and is a true gentleman!

Thanks for the Pm Kid.... I didn't recognize your handle, u always write me on p411.

This guy here is a sweet heart, very intelligent, great convo and quite handsome, Barack Obama handsome.

Yes indeed!

How can you expect respect and a good attitude from a provider who doesn't want to see somebody for whatever reason. I don't like McDonald hamburgers but if somebody pays me to eat them I'm supposed to like them and because there is money involved it makes it mandatory that I like it. Really Originally Posted by bigworm

You kinda left out the whole free will aspect.

Your scenario would make more sense : I don't like McDonald hamburgers but if somebody paid me to eat them I'm supposed to like them and because there is money involved it makes it mandatory that I like it.

Just because someone offers you something, doesn't mean you have to accept the deal.

What is this? A bad Mobster movie? "I made him a deal he couldn't refuse..."

Don't be so judgmental! Why are y'all giving this guy so much grief? Can you imagine being a very well educated man who happens to be very respectful, handsome, professional, and great at daty (yes just ask many of my provider friends) and someone turns you down because of skin color? It is reality but a hard pill to swallow. Luckily for the rest of us, we don't have to share you with women that won't appreciate you! How did she even know you were black? I had no clue until you showed up at my door! Lol

Btw, he likes all women black, white, or other!
Kid, you are on several ladies' favorite list. Don't sweat the stuffy.. I mean the small stuff. You are golden and have great references. If that isn't good for someone, maybe she needs to stick to her small town.

Some of these black men that complain that some white providers have a preference not to see black men. If you look at their reviews, that don't see black providers. Only white and hispanic. Is that racist? Or is that a preference? It works both ways. Like gdiddy said...get over it and move on. Yeah and see a sista too. Originally Posted by Robe

I know this topic has been discussed so many times but I'm just baffled that in this industry, one in which I do participate, but is considered to be the most immoral, and at times dishonest, that there are providers who refuse to see black men.
Who are they to be so self righteous, and yet not see men if color. I think they have a lot of nerve....I mean damn, you're selling sex.
I know sometimes it's a matter of preference, or sometimes "management" that may also be men of color that don't want to risk competition.
I just think this is crazy. Originally Posted by Dakidone69

You are exactly right, they are just selling sex, they aren't looking for a pimp, or to be robbed, mistreated, degraded, endangered, or have their rates "negotiated". Now of course this is not the behavior of all AA males, however fact is that these issues are found higher in AA males, especially when it comes to the younger newer providers. For most its easier to simply say no AA, than it is to take the chance once and find out if this AA male is one of the good ones or one of the bad ones. Of the more than 1000 pimps arrested for promoting underage girls in 2012, 94% are African American, so you are asking a lot of a 19 yr old girl to just "see him and find out". When you are a firm responsible for those girls, it only has to happen once that an AA males robs, beats or tries to force unprotected action on a 19yr old girl.. you want to then turn to the same girl and say here ya go, a few more AA guys comin to see u today!

Its a shit world and lumping all into a pile of some really sucks, but if the alternative is the occasional beating, robbery, rape or worse.. doing whatever you can to cut down on the odds is the job of the manager. Do we tell girls not to see AA males? Nope, we tell them see the AA males on the list if the WANT TO. We haven't lumped all aa males together here at the Elves.. we lumped all unverified together.. black white or purple.. if ur not known to be safe.. you don't see an Elf.

Problem is the new girls starting up don't have a huge list of safe guys to choose from, so they either just don't see AA males, or they take the chance, those who take the chance, usually either don't stick around long, or end up very jaded and overly safe to a point that its no fun for anyone. Best thing to do is look at NBA providers just like CBJ providers, if you don't like it, don't call them.It's all personal choice of a provider, would you make this big of a stink about providers who use rubbers when all u want is BB play? nope.. not in public u wouldn't,lol

Be the same as us bitching about all the AA guys who cant read "no AA" on an ad when a providers chooses to put it on her ad and they still call. I know education in America sucks but cmon! My Fav? the guys who call and first thing they say is "Yo Boo, I wanna hit dat shits!" then they keep asking why when the provider says im sorry im not available,lol.

NBA is just another choice that a woman has, CBJ, No Greek, No Outcalls, etc, its a menu.. if its not the menu you want.. shop elsewhere, don't keep bitching that ur food hasn't been added to the menu yet. When you get Mcdonalds to add sushi to their menu, then come back and start on getting NBA girls to go the way of the dodo.

Originally Posted by DallasRain

Dallas got it right... ijs.

Why is that man beating a white dead horse does he have a NBDHBP?
(No black dead horse beating policy)

oops sorry.....here ya go!





and for the next "dead horse" debate....

I didn't think it was possible, but it's finally happened: I completely agree, 100%, with Heidilynn. I'm bound to owe someone lunch over this...

I'm just slutty Originally Posted by Zada Knight

You, too?

I didn't think it was possible, but it's finally happened: I completely agree, 100%, with Heidilynn. I'm bound to owe someone lunch over this... Originally Posted by Old Horn Dog