Not Your Typical Day with Cbarnett656, or Was It?

My review states she said an hour was $200, I never asked how much for an hour I just asked about donation, she responded $200 hr, i then ask if she did hhr and how much, she replied $125.

Maybe we should end this pissing contest...everyone is wet enough!

Thank you Jade for your very prompt and well balanced reply and explanation.

I personally find it very odd that Cbarnett656 originally listed $$$ for the half hour appointment in his review and later changed his story as to the amount of the donation.
I’m also truly confused as to the alleged security that Cbarnett656 claims in the following post. He claims that Jade got in his truck and took $20 from his wallet and then politely asked him to use his phone to make a call ??? I mean REALLY ... WTF
Post #19 in the review located at http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=658312&page=2

I've never met Jade, but at anytime in the future that I might have that pleasure all she will have to do is flash me that pretty smile as she kisses me goodby and I will gladly hand her a $20 tip

I plan on seeing Jade in the near future. This won't deter me. Nothing seems very solid here in Cbarnett656's story. I do appreciate the information, as that is what this board is for, but each person must make an informed decision on their own as to how to interpret the situation. Thanks to both for sharing.
Now can we move on??

To you Giteneny, im sure if this happened to you that you would state your case.

And to you MGL, is $$$ not 3 digits and 125 also 3digits? Maybe i am posting it wrong but that is why i posted $$$. If I am posting this wrong please someone let me know so I can correct for future reviews.
And yes she did ask to use my phone, never said she did it politely, but since she took money from my wallet I assumed she would try to hold my phone hostage til i gave her more money so i told her no! She asked again and said Im not gonna take your phone but I again said no!
I have no agenda and I am not trying to put her out of business, once again all I am doing was posting a review on my experience and now defending myself over the post. I know what happened and Jade knows what happened. I have no reason to lie as I have nothing to lose, Jade on the other hand stands to lose alot if she admitz to her taking my money and threating to call her "security". I will admit I should not have stayed when she asked me to, hind sight is 20/20, I will in the future be more detailed on the time I request.

$=100
$$=200
$$$=300
$.5=150
etc,etc
We all learn from our mistakes bro.

MGL, thanks for the info, so yes i did post wrong, my apologies for that. And yes MGL we do!! I apologize for our little spat earlier, TLC flaked out on me and I am now realizing what she said to me about you probably isnt true!!

To you Giteneny, im sure if this happened to you that you would state your case. Originally Posted by Cbarnett656

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I would like to say that if a lady ever posted that I got her so stimulated she forgot to check her fee I would be so flattered I would ask her to follow me to my truck so I could give her the title. Some things are worth walking home for.

Personally, I think the discrepancy between the fee posted in the review ($300) and the amount that Cbarnett himself admitted he actually paid ($125) speaks volumes.

When trying to determine the truth (or lack of) in any situation, I look for minute inconsistencies. It's been my experience that small inconsistencies most often lead to even bigger ones...

I do agree that Jade probably handled the situation a little differently than a more experienced provider would have. He definitely needed to be called on the situation. Personally, I would have just phoned him and offered him an opportunity to rectify it – and if he refused, put up an alert in the ladies area & marked him as DNS for future dates. I've had many situations when a mistake was made by the hobbyist, and almost always, it was cheerfully rectified to my satisfaction.

Cbarnett – Your attitude that you only have to pay the provider for physical activities is way off base. We are paid for our time and companionship, not specific activities. Otherwise, we would charge by the acronym. Sounds ridiculous, doesn't it? If you stay an hour, you owe for an hour. Period.

Jade, it's up to you how you want to run your business. Personally, I would never offer half-hour appointments. One attracts a much lower quality of clientele. You will spend the same amount of time screening, take the same risk – for half of the donation. It's also very difficult have a quality appointment during that time frame – and far too often, I've seen girls criticized in reviews as being "clockwatchers" for those types of appointments. Not to mention, it brings a huge increase in traffic to your incall! It's just a no-win situation, in my opinion.

He didn't mean $300. He meant $$ but put a $ in front of his $$ to indicate $200 is what I got out of it. It was an acronym mistake.

The rest of it sounds like a huge miscommunication between 2 self-admitted newbies that I'm sure neither will allow to happen again.

This absolutely was a miscommunication on both our parts I think. Yes I am a newbie and made some mistakes which I have learned alot from these posts! I didnt know the terminology when puting rate in review, i shld have put $.25 for $125.

Mr.Chan, you are correct I was very flattered and Jade is a very good provider which I have stated but I wld not see her again because of what happened after our session.

Ginger, just because I messed up on the rate terminology does not mean I am lieing. I am not lieing and if that means some providers wont see me then thats my fault. I am new and have alot to learn about the hobby, I have learned alot today and know I will not ever make this mistake again.

I personally feel that this was simply a matter of miscommunication by both parties. With both being new to the boards and not understanding the usual greetings and habits, it lead to an unpleasant situation for both of them.
I hope that both parties will listen and learn from their ordeal and lick their wounds and walk forward.
I also hope that Jade will seek out an experienced provider to teach her the ropes.
J my .02

Obviously those mysterious txt msgs would clarify any misunderstandings.

Getting laid taint rocket science.