SO F-IN TICKED OFF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I have read through this thread a few times. What they did to you seems very intentional. I suspect they planned to cause as much harm as they could for some unknown reason. I hope they were not invited to the b-day party. Your supporting friends here would not mix well with that breed.

When I encounter the negative people, I like to think that I am doing most everything right. They are the ones that have issues to work through. I am not better than others, just on a wiser and more productive path.

I'm glad you are alive and thriving.

"Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one getting burned" The Buddha

Friends and loved ones are the only ones with the power to truly upset and disappoint

I'm blown away by any woman who intentionally would have 5 kids in todays day & age. This woman does know it's 2013 not 1913 right. When I was in HS 25 years ago Planned Parenthood was out in full force preaching. Man your battle stations.

Post pics of said people so we can avoid them!!!!..or stomp their faces in!!!

I'm over it... what good is staying mad going to do for me? Thanks for letting me vent and for the support... sometimes just letting it out is enough to ease the pain... muah.

Ginger, I just today saw your post and can definitely believe these so-called friends would screw you over. Shows you what their mindset is, huh. I love how your anger rises and explodes and then you reflect and decide these asshats are not worth the agravation. You did a nice thing for people who could care less, forget them.

Well Moss.... I AM a redhead afterall... we are known to get a bit, uh, EXPLOSIVE, ( tee hee hee.)

By the way my darling, I LOVE it when you say, "asshat." It is, without a doubt, my favorite adjective to use when describing a person who is an asshat.

It happens all the time but be happy that you made the effort to help and did the right thing.
Just because they abused it don't let it take away from the nice thing you tried to do.
Its their loss for losing your respect for them and nothing more than a monetary loss for you..what they lost is much greater and can never be regained again.

and yes they are definitely asshats for abusing your kindness.

I giggle inside when I read the word asshat.... Just picturing it literally.

Just for the record this wasn't me. I had someone ask me if it was me. I think that behavior is disgusting and I would never do that to someone. I have my own home, my children are well behaved, and I would never do that to someone's home.

Was this a provider or just a friend of yours? I know many people are asking and this has started finger pointing and can damage some girl's reputation here. And just because I have 5 children people are thinking it's me. That's why I had to clarify it wasn't me. I know you said it wasn't hobby related so I assumed it wasn't a provider.

This post is in... THE SANDBOX. I do believe this is a place for NON HOBBY related subject material. I am also quite positive no finger pointing has been done... however... let me clarify in order to ensure the hobby folk are aware and no one's stellar reputation is tarnished.

Attention hobby and non hobby world... this post is NOT about, related to or connected with Malaya.

I never meant that you were doing the finger pointing. I just know that it has been speculated that it was me because I've been asked by guys in the hobby. I understand that it wasn't hobby related but I think that bit flew over the heads of some and they started making assumptions that were incorrect. That's why I wanted to clarify. I wasn't trying to be rude to you. Just wanted to clarify

Oh look! More drama!!

Dayum Jenn! I saw all these threads n thought...wtf is going on!!
But i get it...its just your number #1 fan
Malaya....in all the threads you dug up, you seemed to be geniune, caring, and didnt say anything mean at all. ...considering yalls history...i wouldve came across it, and thought...dayum. what did malaya do for all this backlash.

BUT....youve dug up all these threads from MONTHS ago...plus its thanksgiving.
Im a single girl, w no family other than my parents...so yea..holidays dont really mean much this way.
Dont you have something better to do? Dont have ANYTHING to be thankful for?
Im looking at all these posts you dug up.....and im wondering, dayum...she mustve did SOMETHING.
Bc if you are truly a victim as you claim...and people are always "picking on you" ...you wouldnt CONTINUOUSLY fuel their fire. Cant stand the heat, get out the kitchen maybe :/
All thats about to happen, is youre gonna write another "i seek sympathy" thread...when you cause it all
Spare us, please!!