Giving up the Hobby

Damn, I say you have been not chosen wisely. I have been to SA one time, for only one weekend and I had some of my best experiences ever. Thank you ladies.

Almost every experience that I've had has been great. Read the reviews before picking someone

There's a ton of great girls out there. Why you havent found one is beyond me... Take care!!

There's a ton of great girls out there. Why you havent found one is beyond me... Take care!! Originally Posted by amber_hskpr

I agree and Amber is one of them.

That being said the hobby is not for everyone. I have challenges with some aspects of it also. If it is not your cup of tea, then it is best if you take another path. Good luck in the future.

I'm assuming since you decided to post this diatribe for the hobbyworld to see you either want to obtain an attention grabbing exit or some pms from providers ready to change your mind...

As you see... the thread has reached page 2. So you have certainly gained any attention you may have been yearning for. Now... are you really planning your exit? Or are you going to allow yourself a shot at some of the site's fine and reputable providers before making making your departure? This is NOT a reply based on shameless self promotion by the way. The ladies who have been used as examples by other posters have solid and reputable endorsements and deserve a chance to give you the excellence you desire.

I'm assuming since you decided to post this diatribe for the hobbyworld to see you either want to obtain an attention grabbing exit or some pms from providers ready to change your mind...

. Originally Posted by Ginger Lovelace

Exactly Ginger. I have absolutely no knowledge of tallsteven, but I would advise providers in the sake of safety to do a lot of screening in this instance. Three years, four posts, no reviews, and then this. Certainly ask for references. My spidey sense kicked in when I saw the original post. Sorry tallsteven. I'm sure you are legit, but ....

hey baby---don't give up

there are a few of us gals you have YET to exerience! Originally Posted by DallasRain

Guys need to learn to walk before they take on a Marathon... NO? LOL

Most of my experiences have been great- 80 to 90%. All started from a simple massage off backpage to TER in DC. However, all good things must come to an end at some point. While dating some girls in DC this past year (outside of hobby, of course),at one point, i realized that i should move on and start thinking long term. I plan to quit within a year. It was fun while it lasted. Got chance to meet so many nice ladies, including those few girls that have strong hobby politics in DC. All in all, no regrets!

From your posts it appears your interest is more towards BP girls. Perhaps that's where the issue lies. I read MANY reviews prior to making a decision; as a result, I've never received other than what I expected so far. Could part of that be luck or chance?--yes. Could I end up with a bad experience despite my research?--yes. The bottom-line is you need to do a lot a research, evaluate the TCB skills before the meeting, chose providers on ECCIE with a string of good references, don't expect more than what's listed on previous activities, and make your expectations clear. After doing all of these things it still could go wrong, but your odds of having the experience you expect will be much higher.

...and i'm sure Flinde, UparoundNoon, and a few others that go to BP would have valued and gave you valuable information.

Totally agree with you in regards to all good things must come to an end.

Most of my experiences have been great- 80 to 90%. All started from a simple massage off backpage to TER in DC. However, all good things must come to an end at some point. While dating some girls in DC this past year (outside of hobby, of course),at one point, i realized that i should move on and start thinking long term. I plan to quit within a year. It was fun while it lasted. Got chance to meet so many nice ladies, including those few girls that have strong hobby politics in DC. All in all, no regrets! Originally Posted by realmadridfandc

I have alot of f#$@#!%^ fun w/ the ladies on here.......SA has a lot to be proud of w/ their women....hard to believe in 3 plus yrs you cant find one to have fun with.....bye....