Dinner beforehand...

If it's a question of how much you might make, instead of enjoying intelligent company and a good meal. Look at how much I can make by not taking you to dinner. Hmm....I don't think I have ever made that much.

This is a question for both sides...

Have you ever thought of having dinner before a session? Is that wrong? Should there be a fee for the time spend there too?

I put in request for this and was Very Disappointed with the lack of replies. I was left dateless lol.... Originally Posted by black5uperman

Dinner would have to be after the session. Also depends on the lady if she wants to charge extra for that. Sorry, for ya being lefted dateless.

i think dinner would be a great way to meet and feel safe and at ease.........It would be nice if the guy "tip" a lil' extra for meeting him at dinner. maybe a thank you gifts as a token of appreciation for good conversation and company? Just a thought(:

I would be most happy to take either or both of the two ladies above me to dinner and then dessert.

I would be most happy to take either or both of the two ladies above me to dinner and then dessert. Originally Posted by Altbier

I couldn't agree more, except probably desert and then dinner... Sonya and Karla seem to be absolute gems!

It doesnt hurt to work off a dinner date with some playtime after good drinks and some food.

Remember, this is a business/hustle. If you build enough of a rapport with a gal after several sessions where u spoil her, she will prob go with u on the house, provided there will be a session afterward. You want a date date, try meeting a gal at a club who will go eat just to be romantic. But many girls here have things to take care of, so it is not to be rude, but if you try to book just a sweet dinner and someone else offers some bucks, you will prob get ditched. And that's how Sue Silvester sees it.

Thumbs up @ Karla and Pepper. They both understand what I was trying to say.

Communication is a wonderful thing, so is managing expectations.There have been times where dinner and drinks afterwards are like a tip when we were both having a good time and she had time to spare. Other times it was worth the money to pay for some time over some appetizers and a drink to make the screening process go smoother,and results in a more relaxed session. The key, communication, this is a business.

Remember, this is a business/hustle. If you build enough of a rapport with a gal after several sessions where u spoil her, she will prob go with u on the house, provided there will be a session afterward. You want a date date, try meeting a gal at a club who will go eat just to be romantic. But many girls here have things to take care of, so it is not to be rude, but if you try to book just a sweet dinner and someone else offers some bucks, you will prob get ditched. And that's how Sue Silvester sees it. Originally Posted by Pepper_Springfield

You could say you are like a superheroes. When duty calls you have to leave.

I've done the dinner before play but we had a very light meal. I prefer afterwords. I'm a growing boy...... I can work up an appetite.

Please do not ever expect me to pay if I ask you out for dinner drinks or dancing. I know what you're thinking.... What a fucking asshole! You see, I'm not expecting to have sex with you because I take you out to eat, drinks or dancing. It only means that I want to treat you like a woman and not just a vigorous workout.

Now, it is different if I need your services to go to some sort of function and you would be required to play a role. Because then I will be expecting your A game. If were out and about for drinks dinner and maybe a round on the dance floor. By all means let your hair down. Be yourself. But if you want to play later with me. I will be more than happy to stop off at an ATM so you can get some cash. I'm not free either!

I'm not free either!
Originally Posted by Salsa man

You tease!! Can you at least show me yours if I show you mine.......again hehe

i think dinner would be a great way to meet and feel safe and at ease.......(: Originally Posted by XOXO Karla

thats what I say

Dinner would have to be after the session. Originally Posted by Sonya Playmate

Indeed. Life is uncertain. Eat dessert first.

i think dinner would be a great way to meet and feel safe and at ease.........It would be nice if the guy "tip" a lil' extra for meeting him at dinner. maybe a thank you gifts as a token of appreciation for good conversation and company? Just a thought(: Originally Posted by XOXO Karla

Ah yes, a lady after my own heart.