regulars?

I think Miss BuxomBrown summed it up pretty good. What she said makes sense.

Regulars... friends who I spend time with on and off the board and whom I care about beyond the monetary level. muah!

I'm going to flip this around for a second. How about what is my favorite girl? For me that is a companion with whom I have some spark, connection, common interests, and seems to enjoy seeing me. When I have a favorite girl the visits seem so much more fun. Sometimes they are longer than normal, other times it just seems that way because the sex is so frenzied. Sometimes the games starts slowly, sometimes I'm drug into bed when I get to the door. When I have a couple of visits where we are just going through the motions then I realize it is time to find a new favorite girl. I'm not asking for a special regular rate, and I believe it has only been offered once. That is likely because I can't sustain a twice a month habit.

So back to your question, I strongly believe you get to define what is a regular to you. And as I noted above, there is a bit of a difference between a regular and a favorite. You may have a guy who is a favorite of your for any number of reasons, but he is only able to see you monthly. You get to decide if he qualifies for regular rates as well.

The implication in you question is guys expecting your best at a bargain rate. It is my experience that bargain rates do not imply best service. I'm extrapolating from real world experiences here, not the hobby, but I suspect the same holds true. I believe it would be difficult to do your best while in the back of your mind wondering why you let this jerk talk you down on your rate.

You get to set the rates, we get to look in our wallets and see if we have the scratch to make the date. Pretty simple, really.

Rover... my you sound bitter this am! I cordially invite you to a lunch or a something where we can discuss this topic among many others. As a friend favorite and regular... no wallet needed we can have an adventure and walk the check or bitch about the service or eat the entire plate of food then find a hair... and refuse to pay... or shit... maybe we could go to dennys and start a food fight with the table next to us?Live up to the legends of the wicked? Any of this sound fun? (

In my own a regular is a guy who sees me consistantly, whether once a week, twice a month & sometimes even less. If we have met more than three times and have become personable I will consider you my regular. I have guys I see only when I decide to visit their town, but they make an effort to see me everytime I come to town they're also my regulars.

I don't personally think a client has to see you once a week or month to be a regular.

There are regulars and also those you might just consider repeat clients for special rates. We've all seen the ads and you can certainly define repeat client as well (like you've seen them more than 3 times for example). I'd say as long as your ad or communication is clear as to what we can expect, do whatever you want.

In my own a regular is a guy who sees me consistantly, whether once a week, twice a month & sometimes even less. If we have met more than three times and have become personable I will consider you my regular. I have guys I see only when I decide to visit their town, but they make an effort to see me everytime I come to town they're also my regulars.

I don't personally think a client has to see you once a week or month to be a regular. Originally Posted by AmberDoll

Nailed It!

IMHO, I think that what makes a client a regular or a favorite is a definition that can only be decided by each individual provider based on her needs and comfort level. As to the special rates for special clients, personally, I never haggle rates or look for specials, although I have had more than one provider hand me back some of the donation at the end of a session. I figure that the 20 or 30 bucks difference will impact my enjoyment more if it's in the providers pocket rather than in mine.

I don't know if any providers consider me a regular or a favorite but I do know that, so far, every provider i've cared to see more than once has welcomed me back after the first time.

For me, "regular" means who I see on a normal basis. I typically only step out occasionally, and it may be months between opportunities to indulge. But when I do, it's always going to be the same one or two girls. That makes it a "regular" thing from my end. You can set your definition, and it's valid for you just as much as mine is for me.

ESPECIALLY if it's about specials and rates, that's all up to you anyway.

Noone will believe that Joe about money given back... gasp.

Halbadan.... mindfuck much? you out in Htown again?

Noone will believe that Joe about money given back... gasp. Originally Posted by Ginger Lovelace

What can I say, I guess i'm just the kind of guy that makes women want to give me money.

Rover... my you sound bitter this am! I cordially invite you to a lunch or a something where we can discuss this topic among many others. As a friend favorite and regular... no wallet needed we can have an adventure and walk the check or bitch about the service or eat the entire plate of food then find a hair... and refuse to pay... or shit... maybe we could go to dennys and start a food fight with the table next to us?Live up to the legends of the wicked? Any of this sound fun? ( Originally Posted by Ginger Lovelace

Oooo, I didn't mean to come off as bitter. Could be because I woke up with Woody and no good way to make him get off (me). I wish I could have had you take care of the little bastard.

For me, the question comes down to this: How does a lady decide, from a business model, which clients recieve preferrential treatment with respect to time and or money?

While it may not be the best analogy, I will use a frequent flyer airline program as one. I have been an American Airlines frequent flyer for over 20 years..... while certainly, I have been established with them for a long while. I only receive preferrential treatment when I travel more frequently.

When I was travelling 200 days a year, I often got first class seating upgrades for free, boarded the plane in the first group, welcomed into the special lounges, given free drinks etc. It was quite nice.

When I began to travel less, my perks simply fell off and all I collect are miles points.

To be sure, we all rode in the same damn airplane from point A to point B. For some of us, the overall experience had more perks.

Each airline has different definitions of "frequent flyers" and different levels of perks.

Respectfully,

OldSarge

My "friends" are my regs..I strive to have only reg "friends" because we are both more comfy, and my actual purpose as a provider can then be fulfilled. (not to mention steady benefits) I have some I see weekly, twice a week, every 2-3 months, and a couple I only see once a year, because they are overseas.
As a provider, I am reassured I am providing my best by the returns I have.
All Ladies should be so lucky!

I think it is depending on who you are talking about..... some gentleman cant hobby all the time..... so what they do is regular.... which could be a few times a year.... or they can hobby everyday LOL.... but its up to you to decide what you want to be a "regular"