For gents that like bbfs

Putting a note in your signature area is a good idea, especially if this is an ongoing problem.
You might also want to put a note in any of your future postings in the providers ad's and weekend sections.

Good luck to you. Originally Posted by Tatonka

Thanks Tatonka! I guess I still need to work on my delivery when making a point or suggestion

sixx

And I agree, its maybe not suicide sex but defiantly stupid sex Originally Posted by shayla84

Ending up baby daddy to a hooker's child and the lifetime of drama and bills to follow equates to suicide sex in my book

Toots, I have been dropping loads in providers mouths for years now prolly longer than you have been taking those loads. If you don't want what you deem "rude" comments, don't post something so foolish. Yes, when it comes to you I am an outsider. I would much rather be in your case, an outsider than an insider. heheh get it??

sixx Originally Posted by sixxbach

I don't think that bbbjcim is what she was referring to, although that may be part of it, as well. There are many providers who draw the line at bbbjcim and (hopefully) virtually all will draw that same line at bbfs. just my .02 cents.

Seriously, should every provider now open a thread so everyone knows not to ask for BBFS? Then every provider that doesn't kiss can open one. No BBBJ? No problem, start a new thread.

"I don't hold hands on the first session...and its a 50 upcharge after I get to know you"

I think its rude to call us providers hookers for one, cause were not, a hooker is what you pick up off the street somewhere, and two and the only thing I can say is obviously the people who have an issue with me saying this are the ones that see it as a problem that some of us providers don't provide this, and yes I do provide bbbj and cim so that's not what I was saying, and the point is its a waste of time and our money when we schedule with you and could have seen someone else that wanted that time and then when your almost here you ask for bbfs or when your here and then you have to leave, its getting old and like I said its a waste of our time. so that being said I am done commenting on this and obviously I am getting my point across and the people making slow comments can talk to them selves, I am not one for drama and I am not going to argue with someone you cant get anything across too, I dont do it with my kids and I wont do it with strangers so again happy easter everyone, have fun with your family's, kids, friends, or whoever.

I think its rude to call us providers hookers for one, cause were not, a hooker is what you pick up off the street somewhere, and two and the only thing I can say is obviously the people who have an issue with me saying this are the ones that see it as a problem that some of us providers don't provide this, and yes I do provide bbbj and cim so that's not what I was saying, and the point is its a waste of time and our money when we schedule with you and could have seen someone else that wanted that time and then when your almost here you ask for bbfs or when your here and then you have to leave, its getting old and like I said its a waste of our time. so that being said I am done commenting on this and obviously I am getting my point across and the people making slow comments can talk to them selves, I am not one for drama and I am not going to argue with someone you cant get anything across too, I dont do it with my kids and I wont do it with strangers so again happy easter everyone, have fun with your family's, kids, friends, or whoever. Originally Posted by shayla84

You're not a hooker? Ok... and I am not a john either

sixx

The only reason I commented Shayla is because of all the threads on here very, very rarely does a provider bring up that this is an issue. So I question how often it actually happens. Maybe you had one bad situation & are lashing out because of it? Labeling every john as potentially wanting BBFS seems just as rude to me.
And to "getting your point across", seriously? Why not just put it in your listing as was suggested above? Or better yet, when a potential trick contacts you, mention it casually...that way you are targeting your actual audience & not a blanket statement calling into question everyone that opents the thread.

Just some thoughts that will help you get to the ones you want to get to.

Unfortunately this is what happens when you end up on certain lists and the rumor mill gets started. It also doesn't help when you respond to an iso looking for pse to the max. I believe I sent you a pm or txt telling you that you were gonna get this kind of attention when you responded.

You're not a hooker? Ok... and I am not a john either

sixx Originally Posted by sixxbach

And the sky isn't blue......hahaha

I guess it's better for some of these hookers to live in an alternate reality.

What makes us any better than them gentlemen? We are no better. We are male sluts yet
the providers are always respectful. Calling them hookers is hurtful to them so lets not do that....

Mods not much left good in this thread. Please close it

The only reason I commented Shayla is because of all the threads on here very, very rarely does a provider bring up that this is an issue. So I question how often it actually happens. Maybe you had one bad situation & are lashing out because of it? Labeling every john as potentially wanting BBFS seems just as rude to me.
And to "getting your point across", seriously? Why not just put it in your listing as was suggested above? Or better yet, when a potential trick contacts you, mention it casually...that way you are targeting your actual audience & not a blanket statement calling into question everyone that opents the thread.

Just some thoughts that will help you get to the ones you want to get to. Originally Posted by Toyz

I'm not sure bringing up has the right or desired effect. I've met several ladies in chat that I spent time with later. Sometimes though some things they randomly bring up turns me off and I don't see them. For instance a few out of town ladies that would private message would bring up bbfs in the 3rd or fourth Im. I just don't think it's the right thing to say. I'm not sure their 100% motivation but in my mind I always took it as them putting it out there.

I've had the subject brought up by a provider and had it offered openly, three times:
The first time was when a young lady in Baton Rouge opened the door to her incall and the look on my face must have cued her in that I was disappointed she wasn't as cute as the pics in her showcase.
The second time, a lady in Lafayette was doing a stripper slide and she whispered that she'd bareback for an extra $50.
The third and most recent time was here in Austin when a lady told me that bbfs was on the menu once I had seen her multiple times and brought evidence from my doc that I was clean. Are you kidding me? You want evidence that I'm clean?
I turned it down all three times.

I am a bit baffled as to why the term hooker should be hurtful in any way shape or form.
Using the term does not imply that any of us Johns, Mongers etc..in anyway consider ourselves better than anyone else in the hobby.

The terms hooker, provider and prostitute all mean the Exact same thing. No one of them is any more derogatory than the next.
I understand not using the term whore only because it often is used in an insulting or derogatory manner. However like the other terms it means the EXACT same thing which is one who sells her sexual services period.

A dear friend of mine who provides the same service has often referred to herself as all of the above including the term whore. She is quite happy with the profession and calls it as it is being as she is a very secure, intelligent, classy and realistic woman. However she is not a street walker.

A street walker is one who specifically sells her wares on the street but regardless of where she is selling her goods from she is still selling the Exact same thing. What the hell does location have to do with anything?
If a street walker rents a motel room is she suddenly ugraded from hooker to provider? Is she suddenly a class above her street walker peers?
See how silly this sounds?

BBFS is offered by all of the above while the majority of escorts = providers = hookers = whores (In the non derogatory sense) and street walkers require CFS.

Just because you don't understand why it should be hurtful, doesn't mean it is not. We all know they are not proud of what they are doing, but they are doing what is necessary to provide for their families in most cases, a sacrifice that most of us men would never do for any amount of money. Provider is at least pleasant.

I for one am not proud that I participate in this hobby but my wife became frigged after our first child and hates sex so I really don't have much choice for intimacy. The fact I ended up with 3 kids is amazing...

As for BB, I have not been offered it in the last 10+ years on the board not would I take it.

Ok I dont think I did this right, I just wanted to make it clear, not intended to start drama, I just figured everyone sees the threads almost. I am not on that list homer but I do remember I didnt fully understand pse to the max and when you told me that I took back my offer, lol (if you can do that). I dont think us providers are better then hobbyist but I also chose to call you gents that I have seen as friends as thats what most my gents have become and we can talk or offer advice and all with out even the mention of sex. Maybe this was a bad idea but this is not what I wanted to happen. I have not had any bad experiences other then wasting my time and a couple of unhappy people that have come to me thinking that that was an option. I apologize for all this drama and I would appreciate the mods to close this please, I will be putting it in my show case and signature and all. Again apology to everyone that thought this was offensive or what ever the case is, that was not my intentions. I hope everyones easter is great, and have a good nite ya'll. Have fun stay safe.