Providers: What are the first things you look for...

Good thing ECCIE doesn't allow little dick fat guys.

Lol what about fat guys with big dicks?

I'm just gonna be honest, I have a problem with overweight guys and small dicks, I'm not a mean girl but I can't fake enjoyment and would rather a guy go somewhere else than for me to not satisfy him.......money isn't everything Originally Posted by XOXO Karla

hmmm. It sounds like Karla must have an interesting screening system.

... And evaluate when a hobbyist first walks in the door or you first meet? Any warning signs that immediately put you on your guard or things that immediately put you at ease?

What's the worst first impression a hobbyist has made on you? Best impression? Originally Posted by Netx9

I'm just gonna be honest, I have a problem with overweight guys and small dicks, I'm not a mean girl but I can't fake enjoyment and would rather a guy go somewhere else than for me to not satisfy him.......money isn't everything Originally Posted by XOXO Karla

XOXO Karla, can you define small or too small? Have you ever turned anyone down after their "first impression" proved they were too small?

Now we've really to got an issue to deal with here. What is the overweight to disk size ratio, meaning how big does the dick have to be to negate the overweight issue?

And lets talk dicks. What is little, a #2 pencil dick, or Parmesan cheese wheel dick? How are we supposed to pre-screen ourselves without some definition?

Back to the ORIGINAL TOPIC...

I look for a comfort and respect level first. I seek to find a connection with the client and enjoy a session with them that is free of shallow or judgemental attitudes. I also subtly check for any signs of suspicious behaivor... and body odor.

A man can be overweight and still put it on you like a star athlete in every room of the house. That is for DAMN SURE! He can also treat you like you are the sexiest female creature on the planet, leading to a sultry and seductive session that leaves you weak in the knees. MMMMMMMMM

Now we've really to got an issue to deal with here. What is the overweight to disk size ratio, meaning how big does the dick have to be to negate the overweight issue?

And lets talk dicks. What is little, a #2 pencil dick, or Parmesan cheese wheel dick? How are we supposed to pre-screen ourselves without some definition? Originally Posted by Rover14

No we really don't. She says that she doesn't like to see guys that are overweight OR have a little dick. It's actually two category's, from what I understand is that if you are overweight and hung like a horse it doesn't matter because you are overweight. On the other hand you could have a body like Adonis and have a small dick you still wont see her. Look in the mirror and judge for yourself. I have and know I won't be able to see her... I would like to think it's because I'm not slim...

Back to the ORIGINAL TOPIC...

I look for a comfort and respect level first. I seek to find a connection with the client and enjoy a session with them that is free of shallow or judgemental attitudes. I also subtly check for any signs of suspicious behaivor... and body odor.

A man can be overweight and still put it on you like a star athlete in every room of the house. That is for DAMN SURE! He can also treat you like you are the sexiest female creature on the planet, leading to a sultry and seductive session that leaves you weak in the knees. MMMMMMMMM Originally Posted by Ginger Lovelace

And that's why I need to go see Ginger!!!! I'm always clean and I've heard I'm an ok person to be around... Even though I am a little big around...

This is what I would look for if I was a provider.

... And evaluate when a hobbyist first walks in the door or you first meet? Any warning signs that immediately put you on your guard or things that immediately put you at ease?

What's the worst first impression a hobbyist has made on you? Best impression? Originally Posted by Netx9

I've really never had no bad warning signs that put me up on immediately guard. I'm very lucky for that because of the "screening" that I do. The worst impression would be bad hygiene. The best impression a hobbyist has made is eye contact, happy, nice, friendly, smiling.

I've heard I'm an ok person to be around... Originally Posted by darter

Yes, you are! You're even a good dancer! haha! Remember that?! So fun! Darter rocks!

I can understand Karla's choice of men, as it is really no different than how us guys choose our dates here. We all have our desired type, whether it be hair color, skin color, body type, age, etc.

Thx ginger... I've had similar experiences where the provider is a little heavier or not that great in the looks department but treats me like a king and rocks my world bcd. I've even repeated!

Sonya, your eye contact alone was more than enough to get me aroused physically and mentally. I do the same... Look to connect in conversation during and emails/pms before. It helps me be more comfortable and eases my nerves.

Yes, you are! You're even a good dancer! haha! Remember that?! So fun! Darter rocks! Originally Posted by Pepper_Springfield

Awwwew thanks babe! LOL I do...but that was supposed to be our secret!. That was an AWESOME night thanks to you! And you're the one that rocks, getting me into a club without conforming to their dress code...

I can understand Karla's choice of men, as it is really no different than how us guys choose our dates here. We all have our desired type, whether it be hair color, skin color, body type, age, etc. Originally Posted by raedy4funn45

I can to and don't blame her a bit. I hope that my joking around with it hasn't misconstrued that point. I don't think anyone should have to see someone that they are not comfortable with for any reason.