Giving up your last name, is it worth it?

Damn I only have 17 okays on p411...

2 more to go!

With 19 okays you can have all my info... Just come see me and I'll tell....lol

Mental note: inquire about this when we hit 19 okays... Originally Posted by jbravo_123

lol ... we are all friends here so I can go ahead and tell you now, all my computer passwords are password and my ATM pin and alarm code is 1234

I don't ask providers for their real world information and don't want to know!!!! Don't ever give out your real world information!!!! It might just come back and bite you on the ass!!!!!!!

The reason we join sites like P411 and eccie and accumulate okays, write reviews and generally prove to be trustworthy is so names never have to enter into the arrangement. I can’t imagine a provider saying “my name isn’t Sexy Sally, it’s really Jane Smith” so why should I ever expect mine full name to come into play.

I wouldn't give my last name. I like to keep my personal life private.

For newbies, I can understand. For those without REPUTABLE provider reviews, I understand.

There are guys that screw every BP provider in town and write reviews on them, and they think that's enough. Writing reviews on ladies that half the time don't know about their reviews, or that don't have a vested interest in making sure her reviews are positive don't count. I've seen some of these poor girls link to their BAD reviews just to prove they're not the cops! How guys have this track record get dates with reputable providers without screening is beyond me.

You have to understand guys, in some areas the police are getting more savvy. Screening through employers is getting to NOT be enough, since there are places where the cops are using certain businesses to give employer information to set up stings on ladies.

I understand you're all loaded and we all want your babies, and to ruin your marriages (to REALLY make you a regular), but some ladies just want to make sure you're on your best behavior. And all of us should have our ways to make sure we are all happy campers. There's too much that we risk (even our lives), and whatever you can do to make a lady feel better about meeting a stranger, I would think that would be okay. A lady should not be defined by the level of risk she's willing to take. And I would think the less risk the better

As far as the OP, I've counted several ladies that I could go to today for a reference (that I would TRUST), and that would be what matters.

My last name is Highlight - If you don't believe me, you can ask Mrs. Highlight!! If you don't accept my references, ok's or whatever, I will find somebody that will. Right Ms. Jameson (that IS your last name isn't it)??

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Just copy the above picture if they ever ask for a copy of your id to send to them.

I ask for a name on my reservation form. It's up to the client as to what he chooses to submit. I hope that all clients would supply their true first name though. As a fairly vocal girl during the heat of passion, I'd hate to think I was screaming out a fictitious name. Some could see that as a downer if I'm begging a supposed Sam to do naughty things when the client's real name was Robert. Dick might meet dirt...haha

Hell No!

But hell, I do not even give my first name.

More than likely.....if she is very gung ho about having your name.......even after having multiple references......she probably got arrested before and the next arrest will yield a felony. So she's probably more paranoid and wants to cover every base.

I wouldn't recommend no one use their name if you can avoid it. I was a newbie once.....and out of the few who knew my name it only took one of those ladies to fuck me over. You will pay for it later. It happened to me by getting outed by a providers screener to my girlfriend.......and to this day I'm not convinced the provider didn't know.

when she gives up her full name, ill give up my last name Originally Posted by cum1more

That sounds about right. There are a small number who do know, and I know theirs. But that takes years of building trust both ways.

The ladies cannot run your info thru Public Data and see if you have a history of violent crimes without a last name.

Alright kids, I see there are a few of you on the fence. How about if I was to say that it was from a third-party asking this question. For example an agency, a fellow provider, or a pimp. Would you be so quick to give out that information. I know a few providers that have helped other providers arrange sessions. They schedule appointments posing as the provider that you're going to see. I have also none of them not getting along with each other after a while. You know girls have their disagreements........ And to get back at their friend, they will release your information to the general public or worse. The entire time you would think that it was coming from that really nice provider but in reality it came from the ex friend who handled all your information.

In history every time there's list made, bad things have happen to nice people or at least that's what I remember from history class.

They could possibly be a pimp intending to blackmail you. You never do know who is on the other side of the key board.

So how many want to change their votes?